Guy I'm with is not playing with my boobs. What should I do?

I (26) recently met a guy (29) on tinder and when we were kissing on our second date he told me that it's his first kiss. I could tell that he doesn't have much experience but didn't think of it much. On the third date he asked me if he can touch my boobs and he only touched them. I was kind of excited and hoped that he'd squeeze them and play with them but he just touched those. Would it be weird if I asked him to do it or should I let him figure it out by himself?

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  • Demand he do it.

  • No tell him what you want him to do and what turns you on. How else will he ever know?

  • He is immature. You can teach him how to have good sex and satisfy a girl sexually.

  • Pop one out. Stick it in his mouth.

  • No it's not weird, you are saying he is inexperienced, so just tell him what you like.

  • He sounds a bit shy

  • Lead his han there

  • dont tell him just guide him stand in front of him and get him to wrap his arms round you then guide them up on your boobs. all this metoo has made guys scared of making a move as girls are now seen as not to be touched. dont need to make it werid by saying same with getting his hand down your knickers take his hand and push it down there he will figure it out quite fast ;)

  • Ask him, nothing wrong with taking charge

  • It solely depend upon a person.

  • Suck on ur nipples

  • lucky guy, poor girl

  • He asked for permission to touch them not squeeze them. He's wasn't sure you're okay with it so you need to tell him you're okay with squeezing or sucking them, if you want him to do it. This way you give him permission. And because he's inexperienced or why you need to be blunt with him, because he might not take the hints.

    • He's inexperienced or *shy

  • It's not weird. I think you can just tell him you'd like your boobs played with more.