How do I know if my vagina is tight?

[Anonymous]

When I put my finger in I can feel my walls, but it's not like my finger's getting squeezed. (If I squeeze my walls I can also feel that). I tried masturbating in doggy style a few days ago, and if I put one finger in it feels like normal, but if I put two in there's kind of a big hole, I read that it could be air going in, but is that normal? I'm worried I'm not tight enough, so does anyone of you know how to find out if I am actually tight and not loose? And also tampons don't go in easily lol.
(I'm still a virgin (f17), but probably not for much longer xD)

[Being_a_good_Indian]

The vagina is made from muscles not clay! There's no such thing as a tight or a loose vagina. Age and childbirth can cause certain changes, but a vagina can't lose its stretch permanently.

Vaginas are elastic in nature. Which means it can stretch around objects to accommodate them like a penis or a baby during childbirth. But it doesn't take long for it to snap back to its previous shape.
When aroused the muscles of the vagina relax, which allows penetration. After arousal, the vagina returns to its usual shape and tension.
There are many myths around the effects of penetration on the female body. However there is no evidence that penetration can cause loosening of the vagina over time. After all, it snaps back after pushing out multiple babies!

The myth of a “loose” vagina is an effect of patriarchy and has been used historically to shame women for their sexual lives.
Similarly, a "tight" vagina being a desirable thing is also the effect of patriarchy.

Tightness during penetration can actually be very painful and can be a sign of a medical condition, disinterest or lack of arousal. If you're experiencing extreme tightness and muscle spasm like pains you should definitely visit a gynecologist!

[ohshee]

First of all you are all good down there it's the way it's supposed to be do you have bigger problems you have to take way ahead you're talking about having sex you better be thinking about protection and babies because that's the last thing in the world you want don't be in such a hurry and never listen to a bag this is right before sex he doesn't need a condom if there's no, there's no sex that's who you have to be about it bottom line you better think about it every time you have sex it's 50-50 chance you're going to have a baby

[PrettyPriya]

Sounds completely normal. It is made to stretch to accommodate different sizes. You may have given it a bit of a stretch with two fingers. It always returns to the same size. It is like elastic. It not quite snaps back, a slower version of that. Nothing to worry about ☺️

[ChrisMaster69]

@prettypriya thank you. If it had been puppies or Anal, I had it covered.

[PrettyPriya]

@ChrisMaster69 no problem! I don’t want to hijack this young lady’s thread or I would ask you to teach me your ways in all things gardening equipment and cute puppies lol…To the asker, hope this gives you some peace of mind. Not the puppies or lawn equipment. Ignore me on that.

[ChrisMaster69]

@prettypriya no problem, I could even advise on puppy hammocks

[loves2learn]

👀Is “puppy hammock” the same as “doggy condom”? 🤔

[ChrisMaster69]

@loves2learn Mum by the way meet @prettypriya meet Mum. It’s those cute puppies with their little noses. But yeah bit like those Doggy Condoms

[loves2learn]

Nice to meet you @prettypriya

[PrettyPriya]

@loves2learn Same to you! Hope you have a nice evening! ☺️

[Asker]

Thank you, this helped a lot!

[ChrisMaster69]

@ Asker I said the girls would give the best answers, they have one, guys don’t

[PrettyPriya]

@ChrisMaster69 you got that straight. Or sideways. Either way puppy upside down or right side up is cute

[Rachelspiks]

This is one really weird conversation you've got going on here.

[ChrisMaster69]

@Rachelspiks The conversations tend to bounce around a bit 😂 a bit like Puppies bounce around @prettypriya would you agree?

[PrettyPriya]

@ChrisMaster69 @rachelspiks I do agree. Our nonsense is evolved over time to the point where we make little sense. Chris and I regularly lose it and come off as crazy people. Or have we officially lost it?

[loves2learn]

Inside jokes abound 💃🏻

[ChrisMaster69]

@loves2learn oh yes Condoms all around, handy for those puppies

[PrettyPriya]

@ChrisMaster69 🤣

[ChrisMaster69]

@prettypriya you would have loved the Doggy Condom question. We were howling with laughter. @loves2learn

[PrettyPriya]

@ChrisMaster69 @loves2learn you should bring her up to speed so we don’t look completely mad 😂

[ChrisMaster69]

@prettypriya I told my mum already

[loves2learn]

All good. I know all about the antics @chrismaster69 is up to

[ChrisMaster69]

@loves2learn antics? I never knew I had 🐜 to tick

[ChrisMaster69]

Lmao Aunts to Tick

[PrettyPriya]

@ChrisMaster69 have you told her about my list of life instructions required because I’m female? Side note. This poor girls post 🤦‍♀️

[loves2learn]

@prettypriya no. Do tell.

[Asker]

I don't really mind, it's actually kind of funny to read xD

[ChrisMaster69]

@loves2learn Well @prettypriya has a problem remembering if it’s wipe back to front or front to back etc. We decided pictorial instructions on her bathroom door was best idea

[loves2learn]

Sounds educational lol

[ChrisMaster69]

@ Pretty Pink Asker, consider us a Travelling Comedy show

[PrettyPriya]

@loves2learn apparently because I’m female I don’t have the brain capacity to figure out how to do basic things, like wipe. So, I have laminated instructions, in pictures of course, of all the necessary things to get through life taped all over my room. It stems from me getting questions, from “girls” about the proper way to clean after using the toilet or how some think I’m not capable of doing much because I have a vagina. That’s the short of it. This poster is probably like “please! When is this going to end!”

[PrettyPriya]

@ChrisMaster69 lmfao 🤣

[ChrisMaster69]

@loves2learn if @prettypriya goes quiet or a bit odd for a bit, it’s just me playing with her lovesense Lush going off

[loves2learn]

Damn lol. You two are a riot together.

[ChrisMaster69]

@loves2learn no we are a riot apart, together it would be carnage

[PrettyPriya]

@ChrisMaster69 @loves2learn I suspect too UK government officials have already spotted me as a problem and started the paperwork on revoking all abilities to get a travel visa to visit.

[ChrisMaster69]

@prettypriya imagine your Lovesense going off at 30,000 feet @loves2learn not saying she gushes ….

[PrettyPriya]

@ChrisMaster69 as long as the cabin is appropriately pressurized and I’ve upgraded to in flight wifi 😂

[ChrisMaster69]

@prettypriya can you get airline chair protectors? Like the ones you have on your mattress ,,, in case of erm accidents. @loves2learn she needs your ‘gym’

[loves2learn]

Here’s my gym. I highly recommend it.

https://imgur.com/a/MQ1iB1K

[ChrisMaster69]

@loves2learn @prettypriya check out mums gym kit

[PrettyPriya]

@ChrisMaster69 yes, seat protectors are a must. I might need something like a COVID tent in case of wetness or any kind 😂. @loves2learn have not seen that before 🤔 “Traveling comedy show” …that doesn’t travel 😂😂😂

[ChrisMaster69]

@prettypriya I will let you have a couple hours sleep and turn the lovesense App down to low. Alarm set with a full power blast though

[PrettyPriya]

At asker, I’m glad you are having a laugh. I wouldn’t fault you for asking us to politely fuck off after this has spiraled from a legit question to instructions on how to wipe 🤦‍♀️

[loves2learn]

We travel from thread to thread. 🤣

[PrettyPriya]

@ChrisMaster69 vibrator alarm! Why has no one though of this! What a way to wake up 🤤

[ChrisMaster69]

@prettypriya with a snooze button. The volume button 😂😂😂

[loves2learn]

@prettypriya imagine if you just incorporated it into your sexy dream and didn’t actually wake up. 🤣

[ChrisMaster69]

@loves2learn if she did not wake up, she would need a new mattress @prettypriya is like Niagara Falls

[loves2learn]

@chrismaster69 my kids have some excellent mattress protectors I could recommend for @prettypriya ‘s erm, problem.

[PrettyPriya]

@loves2learn my mind is in the gutter at this hour 😂 @chrismaster69 🤫 I didn’t want that public. All the other stuff mentioned I don’t mind 😂😂😂

[loves2learn]

@prettypriya I am sure @chrismaster69 would assure you my mind is always in the gutter. 🤣

[ChrisMaster69]

@ Pretty Pink Anon Asker. We the travelling player say thank you for your patience. We will post in the GaG Foyer our next show Tonight you had @loves2learn and @prettypriya

[PrettyPriya]

@ChrisMaster69 @loves2learn we thank you asker for allowing us to have some fun! 😘

[PrettyPriya]

To the asker, thank you so much for mhg as well as putting up with all of our nonsense in hijacking your thread. 😘❤️

[Subarugirl]

Oh honey... you're fine. The vagina doesn't just stretch out, that's a myth. If you're worried do kegels, its good for your pelvic floor regardless.

[AustinMan]

Do a few hundred Kegels each day.

[loves2learn]

Sounds completely normal to me, hun. I wouldn’t worry too much about it. :)

[ChrisMaster69]

@loves2learn cheers Mum

[loves2learn]

🥰🥰🥰

[ChrisMaster69]

At Anon asker.

it’s fairly normal but you are likely to get mainly guys answering.

@loves2learn
@jennbitx
@prettypriya

to avoid joining the rest of the Blues, I am sure a Pink answer is best.

[summiter]

You sound normal to me... don't over think it. Just enjoy the orgasms when you masturbate and it sounds like sex is in your future. Just make sure it is the right guy at the right time in your life and don't forget to use condoms every time!!! Has your boyfriend or ex said anything about how tight you are if they used their fingers?

[Asker]

No, we actually haven't done anything yet, we've just kind of made jokes about sex and all that, but I feel like in the near future (like 1 year or a little less) it will probably happen

[Peuples_Francs]

You're tight enough don't worry about it 🙂

[Mofunfour20]

If you can't ask your dad how he can tell? Dont ask anybody else, youd come off as disrespectful because it implys that theyre interested in your vagina. Not the case

[slatyb]

Don’t worry about it. It’s fine. You can do Kegel exercises to strengthen the surrounding muscles.

[Pj1981]

If you are still a virgin and tampons aren't slipping right in then being loose is the last thing you should be concerned about.

[karaspara]

You will be tight also look up kegal exercises they will keep you tight even when you aren't a virgin any longer

[Minamikun]

The best way of testing it is having vibrators with different girth size

You masturbate with them until you find someone that fits perfectly on your vagina and that doesn't hurt you

[Sweepthelegjonny]

Vagina advice from a teenage boy... No thanks.

[Minamikun]

@Sweepthelegjonny I didn't know that men have pussy 🤔

[Sweepthelegjonny]

Of course they do! I’ve had your moms pussy all day

[Minamikun]

@Sweepthelegjonny It's ironic since that i am fuckin' your sister right now, lol

[Sweepthelegjonny]

Well she’s trans so I guess you like dick!! Hah!!!

[Minamikun]

@Sweepthelegjonny No problem. Still hot 😋

[Caliguy88]

My opinion is that maybe get a realistic sized toy and if it slides right in you are probably not tight. How lose is another story. I think most lose girls I’ve been with it almost always has a little extra and the lips just don’t look like they are close all the way. I wouldn’t worry about it though. My friend with benefits I have right now is probably the most lose I’ve been with and I kinda like it. Feels pretty good to me. But again, if you gotta use pressure for an average sized toy, or a guy…. You’re tighter than most.

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

I don't want to know. Advertising you are about to fet banged and then be a miserable bitch because you didn't marry - I want to hear even less of.

[jeffryrobertbabb]

I have had two girls whose vagina was too tight, to the point where it caused me pain. It led to the breakdown of the relationships.

[bananathunder]

ask the guy who gets to go in there

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

no such thing as "tight" and "loose"

Those are terms used by mainly men, to get away with calling girls sluts and prudes (slutty for loose, prudes for tight)

the vagina expands with bigger dicks. but no, you can't actually have a "tight" pussy

[Hanmakev]

Well I can just stick my... oh wait you said how do you know nvm😂

[lycanthrope3]

In the future, address questions like this to the girls to get real answers, guys will want more

[Asker]

Lol thanks, I'll keep it in mind

[mpodeszek]

When it hold s it in there that it won't release

[Terssert]

I'll know if you'll send me your picture.

[Asker]

Lmao dream on buddy

[HollyK21]

@terssert your eyes must’ve grazed right over the fact that she’s UNDER 18. Sicko.

[Subarugirl]

PEDO alert!

[Rachelspiks]

Perv.

[Honery63]

If you're partners are satisfied and you enjoy sex, it is just right.