How do I make my boyfriend eat me out?

he's new at this and very uncomfortable, what can i say to boost his confidence in this matter? what tips do you have for giving or receiving?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Get him to use his hand on you a lot first. And not just penetration with his fingers.. he needs to know exactly where your clit is and how to stimulate it. Put your hand on top of his and show him. Once he's playing with you right and you're both turned on, just tell him you want him to put his mouth on it. Open up like a flower and let him. I can't imagine a guy not enjoying this but it'll help his confidence if he already knows how to pleasure you and dosent feel like he's "experimenting".. he wants to feel in control and retain a sense of masculinity by knowing what he's doing and knowing he's good at it. You just need to help him get there with you ;)

  • Build his desire encourage with how horny you are and you need him want him to eat your pussy. You dream about him doing it. Thinking of him doing it makes you wet and horny. If he's a good boy and does as he's told you are desperate to make him come too.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Guide him a soon as he gets down there. Show him with your fingers, even, where your clit is. Once he starts licking, tell him faster/slower, harder/faster, etc.. If and when he gets you to cum, try to let some moans out so that he can tell how much you're enjoying yourself and that, in itself, should be more than enough to boost his confidence for the future.

  • so this is allowed from under 18's? i thought how questions were no no's. I'm so lost with this site rn.

    • were im from its not an exact age if you're 13 you can be with someone 15 but no higher if you're 14 it can be 16 and 15- 17 when you're 16 you have very minmual boundries. i am older than 16 and so is my boyfriend here it is not against the law

  • Just give him directions while he's doing it and let him know when he's doing a good job.

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  • U can't "make" him eat u out

    • U can just ask him to and tell him u will guide him through it and tell him what to do. If he doesn't want to DO NOT try to force him. That will just guarantee him a bad experience and he'll never wanna do it again. Wait till he's ready and wants to and then he'll love eating u out in the future

    • i would never force him, he needs to be comfortable.

    • Ok that's good. Then just tell him u would really like him to do that for u and he doesn't need to be nervous and u will walk him through it and tell him what to do. Just don't get frustrated if he can't get it right the first time. Unless ur really quick to orgasm I highly doubt he'll be able to get u there only orally for the first few tries

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  • Watch a video demonstration on it (you can find a couple on PornHub).

  • Give him directions.. tell him what you like. Grab his hair/head and move your hips to show him where/how much force... how you like it. Talking dirty and letting him know when it feels good is important. Like," right there... just like that your making me wet".

  • Some guys are more up for it than others, and some just don't want to do it. Try telling him how much you really want him to and give him guidance on what to do as he's doing it. You'll know what works when he's doing it.

  • Tell him that you love when he go down on you. That is boost his confidence. When he goes to do it, show him where is the clitoris...

  • "as long as you don't bite me or be rough you can't Fuck it up"?

  • Sit on his face

  • Under 18...
    No answer.

    Except stop, you are not mature enough yet.

    • age of consent is not 18 were i live its 16

    • Gag doesn't care they remove all comments I have ever posted when answering sexual questions for under 18. Sorry not me, it's Gag.

  • Have him sniff your used panties where your pussy rests. smell will want him to eat your pussy (make sure you're clean down there)

  • Talk him into letting you tie him up. Then squat over his mouth with a pair of scissors in your hand and say "lick my pussy or I'll cut your dick off." I'm sure he'll lick it.