Try using a lot more lube. doing a lot more foreplay, probably an orgasm or two before fucking, and different positions. Insist he go slow and stop if it becomes uncomfortable. Especially if he's a bang the cervix guy, he may need to dial it back a couple notches.
Doing Kegel exercises can also help you make sex more comfortable.
That said, you may try all those things and still find it a problem. In which case, he's just going to have to stop when it becomes unpleasant for you.
You have every right to halt unpleasant sex.
Thanks very much!
Just be honest. Openly talk to him about it.
Do plenty of foreplay. Try positions that are pleasurable but don't let him go in so deep. Talk to a doctor maybe.
Just tell him to be gentle. Honestly if you tell him he's really big and he needs to be gentle he'd probably be ecstatic. Guys love hearing they have a huge dick.
You can tell him to be more gentle with you, and you can try experamenting with different types of foreplay that include exter-vaginal play.
Sit him down with a drink and tell him, he is too big for you. Make sure he understands that it hurts you. If he does not respect that, then you need to dump him anyway.
The problem is, that you will probably have to dump him and move one to someone with a more average penis. You are still young so you have time, but if not, he is going to want to have regular sex again, and again, etc.
So weigh out your options. Good luck.
Just tell him that he's very large and you'll need a lot of foreplay and lube first. Tell him to go slow. If he loves you, then he'll be glad you told him.
Thanks :)
Women have told me that sex with a big penis can feel amazing, but you just have to warm up and go slow first. Good luck!
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Tell him to be gentle if he cares he will do it. It's not your fault you're so tiny.
It's unlikely his size, and probably more down to you just not being aroused enough.
I seem to be pretty lubricated during sex but it's a possibility
It could be a psychological thing as well. How relaxed are you? if you are even a little tense, that can have a negative impact I think. Most of us consider the physical way before we look at the psychological.
well moaning tells them to go more hard and deep xD you have to tell him when he´s making it unpleasurable for you. basic sexual communication. if something feels bad, tell them.
the feeling for you to have when it slowly enters you... how awesome. My advice would be... relax... let yourself slowly feel takeen away... the being to big will not cause a problem... dont tense up...& you will so enjoy it and orgasm i dare say
@Matilde2016 vaginas are not infinitely stretchable without discomfort. they come like we men in diffeent sizes.
Nice answer
That's the easiest thing to tell a guy
"u are really big, be gentle"
facts 😂😂
a lot of great advice, but I'm going to add that you tell him that just because you moan doesn't mean he needs to go deeper. doing so could actually cause a lot of damage to your uterus
Just talk to him openly about it
what's his size? what's your height?
I'm 5'2 and he's about 8 and a half lol.
What a well endowed penis... u are very honoured ... it is always good to introduce Foreplay...* circuling your tongue on his semi erect penis --- make him feel nice !
great, I'm agree with the big brother tip.. he's in just okay size, he's not too big..
Just tell him that he is too big for you and he needs to get deep inside you else you won't be fucking him more
just tell him openly.
just like you do now
Honey you're too big, stop trying to make a exit ramp through my tunnel.
I read this and started laughing
@falicity lol thanks
lol I found that very funny
How big is he
may be be u are not excited upto the level while doing it...
As usual I bet he had to be the hunter
just get a new vagina that fits. I hear home depot has them on sale
They do!! Thanks
if you need help installing the equipment let me know. Im completely professional I promise
If he is extremely to long (8½ inches from what you said) then if we ad a bigger girth than average I would recomend both of you to limit your sexual positions. He can gives you intercourse orgasms without harming you but only under certain sex positions and with enough arousal. Hardocore is not an option, it will harm you to much.
Mouth, I presume!
Thank you! Finally a girl who doesn't say it has to be huge
tell him to shrink his penis
If only he could lol
he could, just tell him no boner allowed. flop penis
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