How do men deal with sexual harassment?

Sorry for the bleak question but just curious?
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As an add how would you react to a women saying she had been harrassed?
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  • I'm assuming the same way as women. Talking with the boss and HR. But for men, we do have muscle and strength. So for the most part we can defend ourselves.

    However, being slapped on the butt by a girl or guy we don't want to or even being called sexual names... We are in the same boat and there is nothing we can do other than get to a safe place. Because while we are protected physically, both genders I believe suffer the same emotionally

    • I would take the steps to report it with her or recommend them to her. And or, get her pepper spray. Maybe even considering recommending headphones if it's verbal harassment so she could ignore it. It's honestly hard to know the the exact steps but I know there are steps and stages to do it

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  • For the most part I'd welcome it, tolerate it to a level and if it got too much well I'd take what action is needed depending on the situation.

    For the most part if you spank, grope or make unsolicited advances on a bloke they are going to like it yup all the things girls don't want us to do!

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  • In my experience they try to keep it to themselves which is just really sad. I have a friend very handsome masculine guy who was groped and given forced head by a female who now laughs and brags to her friends whenever she sees him and he has done nothing about this except try to avoid her.

    • Thats too stupid abd this gutl must be slapped on her pu**y

    • I never understood why guys do nothing against that.

  • Usually the fuck their harrasser. Where i work this one hot guy was being harrassed by some of the women in the office. Later found out he had sex with the 3 of them at the same time.

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  • To be Honest its happen to me a few times and it pisses me off i mean i can rol with the punches but i dont know what is worse being touched or just the words they are using I can tell you this I have been in fights because of guys touching girls and they have said no for me it was disgusting and I don't know how girls put up with it

  • I used to work as a bingo caller in my teens , and there was a lot of randy old ladies there. Youd always get at least one butt grab a day
    It gets weird but you just laugh it off and notify the manager

  • even false claims can ruin a mans life for a long time these days.

    • While I agree with you I'm not sure how that's relevant to the post

    • if a guy tries files claims against another guy or girl. he is likely to not be taking seriously all to often. regardless of if the claim is true or false.

  • Never been sexualy harassed, so im not sure. But from the rite person i think i would like it

  • its different for a man we see it different, two examples. i was a chef and i had a lot of women flirting and rthey would occasionally throw sexual innuendos i was flattered i was just another employee. when i became a manager i had to stop that. 1) a manager in a position of power, you have a big responsibility your employees should be able to trust you 2) do not entertain any flirting or hugs that stops. you lert your employees know its tolrated. othern then that i dont mind sexual innuendos

  • I tend to T pose to assert dominance.

  • Tell the guy he got a little penis and hand him a Magnify Glass that will make him more pissed off, Sorry Men act like pigs to you, Embarrass the son-of-bitch and he will stop or spray them with chemical mace or pepper spray in the eyes hey I don't take sexual harassment against any woman easy?

  • If it's at work tell your boss. If it's your boss, tell his boss.

  • I've actually delt with this. Well I didn't actually I quit doing work for her. It's a shame because I was making good money but being married and all that and she was kinda hot and was coming on extremely strong. Like naked when I showed up for work at a scheduled time. She literally cried when I told her I couldn't do anymore work for her

  • I've never been harrased at work but I have been seduced kinds forcibly a few times. Since I was strong enough to stop it wasn't really rape but it was pretty close

    • if you gave in to seduction is not rape it just means your not strong up there. seduction is like lour, to get you on tthier mind state. Rape is pretyty muchn not caring how feel very important you know the diifference. now if you where under the age of 18 and got seduced now that statutory rape. You can agree to engage in sexual acts but if the person is much olderthswat pertson can get chsarge

  • I Flirt back with them... shown them pics of my wife and girlfriend, then drop hints of a possible 4 way... that usually stops them lol

  • I suppose it depends. How are you defining "sexual harassment?" The specifics of what happened would matter a LOT in terms of how to deal with it.

  • I had it happen in my workplace once. She was older than me and at first I took it as a joke since everyone laughted, but after she push it to far I lost it! I turned to her and start saying I would never have anything with her mostly because I was afraid of the spiders making webs down there from all the time it has been since her last fuck! I was almost fired, but never hear anything from her again. Everyone looked at me like I was the asshole! Changed jobs not long after.

  • I've never experienced it, but I would tell a girl or woman to report what happened.

  • It's never been a problem. I've been groped in nightclubs, at work but I always laugh it off.

  • I usually say no and ignore it

    • I would ask her what happened during her harassment

  • I have never been sexually harrassed. I have been hit on my co-workers, never a manager though and th coworkers handled the rejection fine.

  • Lie back and enjoy it. It's a victimless crime.

  • oh shit that's an easy once. left hook in the face, i hate being touched and i hate being unconsensually touched even more.

  • I don't deal with it. I'm very nice guy until you piss me off

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