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Sexual Health How do you convince your girlfriend to get circumcised?
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My family is refusing to allow me to marry my Lebanon-born Maronite girlfriend unless she is circumcised. It's a tradition, my family is originally Coptic immigrants from Egypt and would only accept marriage with a circumcised woman. I asked my girlfriend if she can get circumcised to cut off the clitoris, she said she would do it as long as it was a medical proffesional doing the procedure and not some traditional barber or midwife because she fears it might cause pain and infections. My family even refused that and said it is a specific family tradition to have the midwife do the cutting. How do I convince my girlfriend to have the midwife do the circumcision?
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19 29Cut off the head of your penis to show her how great the old ways are, that should convince her for sure.
I was going to add my 2 cents here but I see everyone else has done a good job 😊
I I wouldn't thats phucked up your family should really accept her for who she is yes you have different cultural backgrounds but that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with her believe she's willing to do something its going to change sex and everything for her just in a place that makes her more comfortable if she's willing to do something to apes your parents and satsfy your Cultural background your parents should be happy that she's willing to do that and allow her to have it done in a place where she's comfortable
... Yeah, I think you should give up on that one.
I really don't think you should care if your family approves or not. Let her keep her clit and get married anyway.
If she wanted to do it for herself it would be ok but it's only you and your family pressuring her.
Also if she still had her clit you could use that to please her sexually even better. Why wouldn't you want that?
how the fuck can you have sex with a girl if she doesn't have a vag?
i don't think anybody out of choice would be circumcised as a woman
You misunderstand child. The vagina is not the clitoris.
She has a vag just not pleasure. Which is really bad, but not my place to judge.
@SuperOzgur wait so it would feel like shit? who the fuck would do that
I think it's so the wife doesn't cheat. Or less likely to do so. I know right weird traditions.
@SuperOzgur she wouldn't want to have sex with her husband then, so it could turn into rape great traditions!!!111111111111
Lol lol lol
They cut of the clitoris so she can't get any pleasure out of sex, which is clearly more preferable than the alternative, both parties enjoying it. Who would want that?
@nalaa you enjoy sex hurting? aight.
In case is wasn't obvious, I was being sarcastic
@nalaa nah you have to add /s at the end us internet nerds dont understand sarcasm
DO NOT ASK YOUR girlfriend TO BE CIRCUMCISD
What in the actual Fuck?
So cut off the thing that gives your woman pleasure out of sex, for what? Anyone who "practices" that tradition" should be shot ESPECIALLY THE HUSBANDS THAT ENCOURAGE IT!! Traditions like that have no place in this world and neither do the people who support it.
I see no reason as to why not as many men get a similar amputation.
No religion prescribes any such thing for females.
This is totally a mess, do u accept to get your penis circu or u will not marry your girlfriend.
Iam against that, u and your family and the entire world do not have the right go do that.
This reduce her feelings.
If I was her I'd say fuck that shit. These are some extreme traditions your family practices. You're a grown man, you don't have to do anything your family says tradition or not. How'd you feel if her family required you to become circumcised as an adult by someone who isn't professional. You'd run the risk of yourself to not having pleasurable sex ever again along with other things. Think about her and the pain she'd endure.
Don't.
She's an idiot you two deserve each other
Where do you live? In the UK female genital mutilation is a criminal offence and could land anyone who does this or tries to arrange it with a long prison sentence.
Hood removal or removing the whole clit?
That is love? Maybe find a new family tradition or learn what love is?
You might have to take a stand against your family there. Or maybe have a midwife present as an observer.
Be aware she'll have less pleasure in bed and you'll have to work a lot harder, especially if she can't come from penetration at all (not uncommon). It's a tradition that's changing, and your children won't be circumcised, so you might go ahead and stop it now.
Fuck your family! cutting off your girls clit? what the fuck? that's her fucking orgasm button man! why the fffffuck would you ask her to do that? some traditions are fine but this one? Fuck no! its the equivalent of cutting off a mans dick head! he doesn't need the head to keep pissing, but the head is where he gets the most pleasure from. I say again, Fuck your family and this harmful sex ruining tradition. I hope this poor girl finds a better man and refuses to cut her clit off. BE A FUCKING MAN AND TELL YOUR PARENTS TO STAY THE FUCK OUT OF YOUR LOVE LIFE!!! You're the one who's in love with her and will marry her! not them!
Fuck off with your FGM traditions basically