How do you feel about your partner being darker down there?

I got a pretty awful experience with a guy about my dark vulva. It's really something I can't help but have, but he insisted that it was gross and not pleasant at all to look at. Is that how everyone feels or i just landed with a major imbecile?
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girl, drop that douche. All vulvas are different in shape, size and color. It has nothing to do with hygene. he watched way too much porn, i just know.
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  • You're perfectly NORMAL!! HE'S the psycho!! There's PLENTY of guys out there that would either not mind at all or would prefer a darker puss!! My ex-fiance was from India and even her own family made fun of how dark she, supposedly, was. They even told her no man would ever want her because she's so dark. I call BULLSHIT!! I was with her for 10 years and her ex-hubby was with her for about 20 years!! And the guy she was cheating on me with was with her for at least 2 years before SHE left HIM!! If I didn't know she was an Induah, I would've thought she just had a great tan!! I didn't think she was dark at all!! Just , like I said, a great tan. Her pussy was a bit darker than she was but, I was still madly in love with her and wanted to spend the rest of my life with her!
    If you've got a guy that's gonna judge you on your skin colour on ANY part of your body, you'll do well to drop kick his ass!! He's OBVIOUSLY NOT worth your time and emotions!! He should love you for YOU!! NOT your car, house, money, clothes, looks or skin colour!! I'm SURE you could do MUCH better than him!!

Most Helpful Guy

  • You landed an imbecile! There are sooo many variations down there! Innie vs outie. Size of clit. Coloring. Thickness of labia. And none of those are a problem. I have seen many color variations. I have had sex with western white women, with black women, with Asians, and all the variations were beautiful. In fact, the variations make them even more beautiful than any one type could be. And I appreciate all the differences that any woman of any color could have! A white gal with a dark pussy is fine. No problems at all!

Most Helpful Girls

  • He’s immature to say the least. We are all made the way we are. Nothing is going to be picture perfect — or porn perfect. It’s natural to have some darker parts down there because friction, genetics, and skin tone etc. There’s no need to feel insecure about it or go through all those useless skin bleaching bullshit.
    He needs to grow up. One day he will realize that he is lucky to even get some action. You just landed a real piece of work… Nothing against you, how could you have known he would’ve been like this?
    I’m sure you’re perfect down there, and there will be a guy who will absolutely adore you and all of you!

  • Well that’s a boy not a man. Tell him to spread his ass cheeks he probably has a dark asshole lmaoooo it’s normal.

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  • We have a names for guys like that.
    @$$hole; entitled-@$$hole; moron; douchebag; MAJOR douchebag; selfish douchebag; moronic douchebag. Etc etc. Take your pick.

    Dump the loser. You’ll have dodged a bullet. Cheers!

  • Yeah, what an a-hole. And talk about no compassion or consideration for your feelings about your body. What douche, is right.
    All women are different down there, and there are all kinds of shapes, sizes, and colors. So put that jerk out of your mind, be proud of what you have, and know that most any civilized good guy will be more than happy to have his face down there and how pretty it will be for him. :)

  • He's a total dick, probably never seen a real pussy outside of porn before, sack him and kick hin in the balls!

  • Your guy is a major douche. Get rid of him and find someone who will appreciate you and your vulva.

  • There is no vulva that is not beautiful in its own way. And dark pigment makes them look exotic and mysterious. Do not EVER let ANYONE berate your lady parts.

  • He’s an idiot any guy that would say something like that to a woman is a complete asshole

  • Probably horny

  • I would not even think of that. Who the hell even looks?

  • On update...
    Yep, good answer. You picked an imbecile.

  • I prefer darker pussy, nipples and asshole usually. I'm a white guy so it's exciting and interesting for me.

  • I dunno hard to say

  • You got a jerk or as you say imbecile. It's doesn't matter what it looks like him a good guy would love to admire your pussy and eat and pound it good for you.

  • Dark like when you’re aroused it got dark? Or like just you’re a darker skin tone and he was expecting something else?

  • Id have no problem with that.

  • Delicious

  • Don't care.

  • First, that guys an idiot. Second anyone who has the please to be in a position to see that area should be happy. Everyone is different and I’m sure your downstairs looks beautiful. Don’t let this one experience make you self conscious.

  • He's an asshole

  • I love it when a girl has a darker vulva because the color variations are amazing! It’s so beautiful to see the transition of colors on the different parts of her vulva 😍

  • No it's fine, everyone is different and I'm sure it still looks good enough to eat :)

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