Like rn in my relationship. I get really shy. And I start over thinking and blushing when ever his face gets close to my booty. Like, as embarrassing as it sounds. I can't fathom that he likes butt stuff. I always thought it gross.
How do you prepare for anal? Do men hate the scent of booty?
Thanks for the A2A
There's nothing to worry about Anal , because simply put it's similar to a normal sexual intercourse.. just butt hole instead of vagina this time
Do not worry about men finding it gross.. men rarely find anything related to a woman as "gross"
Here are few things to "prepare"
1) You butt hole might need some "warm up" before his penis enters it... so basically just try to give yourself an Anal by starting with inserting a finger or two.. and then a dildo
This will not only make you comfortable with the feeling of something up your butt.. also expands it and makes it ready for a penis
2) Just clean the area well before Anal sex
Additionally here are 2 precautions which cannot be overlooked
1) Use lots of lube.. Butt hole doesn't naturally lubricate unlike Vagina so use tons of lube yo avoid frictions and injuries
2) Do NOT switch from Anal to Vagina directly without clean up
Do not stick anything into vagina that was inside your butthole without cleaning.. whether it's his penis or a dildo
The first thing is to make sure you both get involved in the hygiene part, getting a shower or bath together. Was each other, help each other. Then just take it really slowly, you are putting your toe into the water not a full splash into the sea.
Is this you receiving anal or him?
If it’s you then, try to start with tongue and fingers, start small and slowly
I would also advise doing to him what he does to you, that way he might appreciate the thing of being gentle and using a lot of lube.
try a small dildo if you don’t want to use fingers, or a butt plug
get used to playing with ass and relaxing both sphincters
lots of lube
Take it really slowly
do not rush and thing.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!if i wanted i wouldn't ever ask a gal to do that, because i heard it is very painful. admittedly i am not tempted for that.
if a guy asks you, then explain it is painful, if he tries to convince you, dump the cold hearted who doesn't care about your pain.
It's not hard. Eliminate before starting -- that will almost completely clear your rectum. Get a silicone dildo, or a few in graduated sizes, use some lube, and gently insert. He can also prepare you by inserting fingers SLOWLY, first one, then two, then three. Three fingers are almost certainly larger than he is.
1. Use lube.
2. Go slowly.
Lubricant
having a nice bidet
start gently with your fingers
if you feel ready, move on to penetration, but it must be soft.
I don’t care for anal, I just vaginal! but the best way I found for us to do it relaxed and comfortably was on our sides and I was the big spoon. We would cuddle and I would kiss her neck or she would turn her head around to me and we romantically kiss. I had a lot of lube on me and then I just gently pressed into her from behind ever so nice and slow. I’d reach an arm around her and rub her clit to try to turn her on more and relax her down there while we kissed and eventually was able to create a rocking slow motion and enjoy it!
I prefer the front door any day. Do not do it if it makes you uncomfortable
Be relaxed and aroused. Only do it with a trusted partner. Use safe lube.
Don't rush into anything not ready or comfortable with.
it needs proper preparation and practice to make it good.
Just take it like a champ
If you have cleaned yourself, your butthole will not have any scent or taste. To reassure yourself, immediately before getting in bed, go to the bathroom and use a wet wipe for a final cleaning.
Have you ever tried playing with his butthole? If you lube your finger and put it in his butt up to your second knuckle, your fingertip with be pressing on his prostate. Start giving him oral sex and then gently massage his prostate. After he explodes and regains his breath, he will probably want to marry you.
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