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How important is sexual chemistry to you?

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  • It’s damn important. The partner who wants it less *always* controls the frequency, which leaves the other in a state of frustration. But there is more to it than frequency. There are also kinks, fantasies, and inhibitions which can be vastly different and incompatible.

    It’s worth remembering, though, that sex is not the end-all be-all of a relationship. Lots of things can make a potential relationship weaker or stronger.

    • Absolutely

Most Helpful Guy

  • No sex = no long term relationship so sexual chemistry is a key element to make a couple remain such.
    Excluding the ACTUAL chemistry behind the whole attraction thing, complicity and desire for the other is something that only lives on if the couple is well oiled and overall functional.

    • I'm just glad that you know the difference

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's overcomplicated. It's simple to understand. Two people who love each other and loves sex wouldn't have a problem. People who have sex and think they have "chemistry" still break up and get divorced, so I don't think it's viable to leverage sexual chemistry as being an indicator of a successful relationship.

    • Just because they love each other and love sex doesn't mean that the sexual chemistry will be there. Sexual chemistry and regular chemistry are different.

    • Well, I'm waiting until marriage, so I don't put emphasis on that. But, I know it's important in a marriage for sexual chemistry to be there, and I'm willing to put in the effort.

  • I want us practically having eye sex until we’re close enough to devour eachother 😍 The devouring wouldn't happen until longterm

    • Lol of course you do

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I think it's definitely important, but peeps should be patient with it. If the other aspects of a relationship are good, be patient to let the other person get comfortable & open up more sexually, even if things aren't clicking sexually early on.

    • Agreed!

    • Yep cuz everybody has different past experiences, etc etc I have a question on a totally different topic I'm curious to get your opinion about. If you don't mind can I message you to try to explain?

    • As long as isn't a creepy question

  • It’s hugely important to me and also to any partner I have.

    being able to connect at a deep level with my partner is so critical in a relationship

    • Connecting at a deep level doesn't always have to be about sex though.

    • @shatteredmasterpeace As I tend to have partners that are lifestyle BDSM, it very much is part of the overall makeup of a relationship.

    • Yes, but what i said still stands.

  • Very important.
    I met a girl recently and we had that sexual chemistry as soon as we met each other. And it was sexual too. Wow, did we connect.

  • If both partners are sexual then pretty important

  • Very important

  • When I was younger it wasn't that important but now that I am a little older I am finding it hard to find someone who we can connect I find that it makes for Awesome sex

  • Very. Sexual chemistry means good sex and good sex is very important to a healthy and enduring marriage.

  • Not at all, as long as he treats me right!

  • Extremely

  • It is pretty important. I always thought it was better living through chemistry.

  • Very important.

  • If you fuck this up you sign yourself up for a lifetime of frustration and anxiety.
    Don't fuck it up.

    • Yes sir!

    • :) Choose wisely, treat kindly. __Dr. Laura

  • Very much so. If there is no chemistry there isn't much for sex to go on.

    • chemistry and sexual chemistry are different things...

  • at least as important as all the other factors that make me decide to wanna be with someone.

  • it makes the world go around

  • At least moderately important

  • Quite important to the point that if it did not get built up over time that I would not allow it.

  • Very very important

  • It is the most important thing.☯️

    • To some

  • More important than anything else in the relationship. Believe it or not, sex can reveal a lot about your partner and their tendencies.

    • I agree with your second sentence.

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