I first went to a club sort of like that when I was 18; it was Saturday, October 24, 1981. My grandmother had died and my two male cousins who were 5 and 9 years older than me, we all went out after the wake to a club where there were girls. I didn't care because they had an Asteroids video game and, earlier that day, I had just gotten back together with my ex-GF who was beautiful and we had made out. So, I don't really count that.
However, in the summer of 1992, when I was 29 and living in Los Angeles, I would visit the strip club near the airport. I did it because I was lonely - I have just moved to LA and was heartbroken and, being a nerd, didn't work in an environment with women. So, I needed Vitamin Female. However, to honor the dancers, I'd dress up in a suit. I was naive and didn't realize that this was a good thing because it looked like I had money. Lots of girls would want to do private dances with me and, of course (still naive), they all were doing it to help them get through college. Really, while it was fun to see these beautiful women, I just wanted to talk. I did it maybe a half dozen times. The last time, I was 30 and it was April 7, 1993. I knew that I was going to have to put my dog to sleep the next morning, so I was just so depressed so I went to the strip club,
I go to the strip club often. I am 24 and still a virgin... and by often, I mean just once a month or once every other month.
In real life, the women that I talk to are very boring, very picky, don't seem interested in me and don't have much to talk about.
When I go to strip clubs... well, you'd be surprised how many intelligent, college educated and interesting women work there.
-I once had an intellectual conversation with a stripper who had a degree is sociology. We talked about the economy, homelessness and racism in our society... and we talked for an hour and half about this before she offered me a lap dance. She was a very smart, interesting and beautiful woman.
-I also had another interesting conversation with a stripper about travel. She was 35 (very sexy and very curvy) and she was very opinionated. We talked about places we
traveled (she's been to a lot of places), we discussed world cultures, etc. It was a great conversation.
I don't go to strip clubs just for the sexual dances, but also to have insightful and interesting conversations with women, because, again, I don't get that from the women I meet outside of the club.
Yes I'm a stripper and studying for my degree 😉
That's cool! I like strippers or "exotic dancers"... because you ladies know what communication is all about! I have talked to countless women who make me do all the talking, don't add anything to the conversation and have nothing much to say. Conversation is a two way street, and I like that the ladies at the strip club understand this basic concept... which makes it easy to talk to them for a very long time.
Yea I agree with you
I went to this hole in the wall strip club in the hood. I've never seen so many fake asses in my life. Also keep in mind this was in the hood so there were no ballers in the club, these girls were twerking hard and barely made any money.
Oh no that's the worst!
Never been to a stripclub before. I want to go to one someday just out of curiosity, not because I like girls.
You should 😊 it's really fun! Take your friends!
I bet. I have a fascination with pole dancing and want to take a fitness class when I move next year so that's a big part of the reason why I would go.
Oh yea it's a tough workout, I still don't know how to work the pole that good hahaha
My boyfriend is a stripper. I actually met him in a strip club
Right on! I met my boyfriend in a strip club too haha
Oh okay. Did he come to watch you perform or...
No he came with his buddies he didn't even know me at the time and he said I was very beautiful and asked me for a lapdance which I happily gave him. He seemed really handsome to me. I then saw him at the gym and that's were things took off!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Have been but it bores me. Even lapdances bore me. I prefer to utilise all of my senses, not just sight and sound.
Really?
Yep. A woman I am intimate with strip dancing and lap-dancing is excellent because it's all foreplay, but other than that I'll pass thanks. I am all about experiences in life but some experiences aren't worth repeating.
Never been, but wouldn't mind going with my boyfriend
Check it out! I think you guys would love it! You can get lapdances at the same time 😊
He is saying they are going to be all over my titties. I just want to see what will happen. I know he is hopong for a threesome... but i think I'm going to let him keep that one in a fantasy bubble
Never have, never will. It is pathetic.
Never been to one. :)
I've never been to an strip clubs before in my life. I would only want a lap dance from my girlfriend or another woman who wanted to twerk for me just for fun. Other than that, I would never ever go to any strip clubs for anything.
I've been to strip clubs twice in my life and will never go back. Miserable experience.
Each time the people I was with paid for lap dances for me and it was awkward and not at all enjoyable. The first time the girl seemed to pickup on the fact that I was uncomfortable with it and talked to me instead. The second time she just kept going and I hated it. I was 24 my first time.
Never been to a strip club
Never been... and there's plenty of good ones 90 miles down the interstate. Yet I choose not to... not sure why I haven't. Just never really bothered with it.
Never been to a strip club and never want to.
Nothing seems more unappealing than a sweaty, glitter covered woman; shaking her coochie in my face while I sip on a beverage and am deafened by music that is only popular in eastern Europe
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I never been to a strip club. Not planning either.
I've never been to a strip club. I wanna go to see how it is, but I don't know if I'll like it. I value respect a lot and seeing how all those people don't show any respect... that I don't know if I would like.
I was 22. I went a place called big Als in Peoria. The redhead who gave me a lap dance was really attractive. She even told me to spank her ass. It was awesome. I did however grope her breasts, and she casually moved my hand away. It was nice of her not to make a big deal about it. I could understand my confusion as to what was ok and what was not because of her telling me to spank her. I wouldn't return to a strip club unless it was for a bachelor party or something though. I don't think I should spend money on something I could essentially get for free.
once... and never again
Why is that?
prefer escorts
Ooooh.. Just when they thought you hated it, you went a step higher... Hahaha.
I've never been to one and I dont see the appeal to it.
Never been, never want to go.
Never been and I don't plan on it.
Really? You wouldn't even go for the experience?
The idea of it doesn't interest me.
been there once didn't really care for it
I've never been. Never had any appeal to me.
I went once when I was 18.
It was weird. I got a private dance from a 30 year old girl who looked 20.
She was very pretty though.
Day after I was at a friends birthday party and forgot my wallet was full of one dollar bills.
They called me out on it and I was embarrassed. I never went back; oh and I was so nervous that I couldn’t maintain an boner during the dance. The girl picked up on this and got slightly offended. She kept looking down at my pants to check and eventually ended up sitting directly on my lap trying.
I guess she turned it into a personal competition or something. I don't know lol.
I had lots of extra money to blow back then.
Was 20 when I first went to a strip club. I'm not a regular and I don't plan on becoming a regular. If I do go I usually do get a lapdance, I only go once in a blue moon anyway.
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