How many people do you have to sleep with to be considered hoe-ish?
Going both ways, male and female, how high does your body count have to be for you to be considered a "bed mite"?
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11 37Woman = 3
Male = infininity. A man can't be a hope in my opinion
Depends on her age but, to keep it
Simple , for people age 20-30
Id sayanything above 7 is hoeish for a woman
And anything above 10 is "playa" for a man.
Above that point they completely seoarate sex from live and think of it just as a pleaure to indulge in.
These are just rough numbers tough.
for guys 10 was just a guess.
As for women, yeah thereabouts.
Tbh , anything above 3 is already too "open minded" , in my opinion
*separate sex from love (not live 😂😂😂)
It depends a lot on why the number is as high as it is.
Let's say 7 for example; Having a loving sexual relationship with each man one at a time, each lost after being forced to break up with each and not moving on to the next one like that relationship never happened? That's terrible luck. Having sex with seven men with no sense of commitment for them, but simply for fun and pleasure? That's slutty. (Especially with multiple men at once, and friends with benefits friendship is not commitment.)
Guys it 5 gals it's 2
Like 100
It doesn't matter to me, i never call any woman a hoe just because of the number of her partners. its her life, she can do whatever she wants to, i honestly couldn't care less.
According to the Bible a woman that had sex without being married is a whore.
Outside of the Bible I will say sex over 3 guys and she is pretty loose.
6-7 maybe
I dunno lol
For me? More than one and I probably won’t date you. If she’s slept with more than two men in her life (outside of marriage), then she’s pretty-much a whore. The only exception is if she’s found God and changed her ways.
More rhan 3 people in a month
I'd say 1 guy a week
Men can't be hoes btw!
Didn't say hoes, I deliberately didn't say hoes. I said hoe-ish, in a form that you do the same actions as a hoe.
Okay but just to clarify, men can't be sluts like women.
If a slut is someone who sleeps around with almost everyone, then yes, in my eyes a man can be a slut. I believe men are more hoe-ish and slutty than who they shame. Society really needs to find a word for them!
You're lost! Men and women aren't the same. Because women are biologically supposed to be selective. The role of a woman is to find a man that will take care of her and her children. Where as the role of a man is to spread his genes or seed as much as possible. Meaning it is quite natural that men experience a much bigger urge to have sexual experiences than women. Meaning a promiscuous man is much more acceptable than a promiscuous women. Any woman who wants dick can easily go and find some. Where as a man needs charisma and other qualities to hit that. Don't get things confused here. Men and women aren't and will never be the same.
@TruthHurt, you may want to read a scholarly treatise on the evolution of sex called "Sex at Dawn". What you're saying is pretty much a debunked theory these days.
No, men are not like animals. Men should be selective to whom he spills his seed into woman he loves looking after. just my pov- not here for ongoing debate.
more then 5 lol
Just one keep your legs closed and respect yourself and you won't have to worry about it
What having many partners has to do with self respect?
@ijustwanttoshare I'm with you. One can have both self respect and be sexually active.
This is not a subject that can be easily defined in a few paragraphs it would take some time Unless you were in your rightful place in society no you cannot and I can tell you from society none of you women have taken that and your shaming yourselves by your actions
How dare you, sir? How? My body is a temple, and I am the Goddess it was made to serve. Love making is a holy ritual that gives us, perhaps, the closest contact with the divine. My worth and my self respect are not tied to how I adhere to rigid norms that both demand the surrender of my sexual self to the control of a man, then tries to shame me for doing exactly that. My self respect comes from demanding my right to live, and yes, fuck, in the way that suits me best. What you mean is that YOU don't respect me, but you want to make me feel like I am responsible for that, like is something I did, and I deserve to be shamed for it. If sex is a shameful act to you, then that sounds like your hang-up, not mine.
only one for life long is safe and better enough
Never thought about it, I don't think it's really how many but more your attitude towards it that makes you a "bed mite"
Whatever the amount of relationships you've had, double that. That's the number. If you've only had 3 significant others but slept with 10 people, you're a bed mite. Or you just know how to enjoy yourself, do you really got to label it?
Probably over 75.
For me I would think it’s not how many guys or females someone sleeps with. It’s more of a time period. So if you sleep with more than maybe three in a really small time period. Or etc. That would be hoe ish
For me it isn't a number but the situation. As long as they are all in actual, true relationships I don't think it is a problem. The moment that you have a one night stand or have a friend with benefits relationship; that is when you a hoe. That goes for guys or girls.