How may people in your life, excluding any current partner, can you openly and honestly talk to about your sexual desires?

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I only have my sister but we don’t talk often enough for me to dive right into the subject.

msmissydc · Accepted Answer

Depends how deep and how detailed. I have like around 8 people I would talk open about sex with but not go into much detail with all of them. ("around 8" because I feel comfortable with some of them included in a group but wouldn't talk with 2-3 alone)

If it goes into more detail and alone I would only talk with 3 people. From these 3, it never came up with one so I never did but I trust him and would feel comfortable around him. He also was there when we were a bigger group and just basic sex talk.

lastly there are the last two people my best friends with whom I talk open, often and private about nearly everything in our sex life.

It may sound weird that I am more comfortable in a group with some than alone, but the reason for this is, that I dont expect return questions that go into detail or can get uncomfortable and they can know about thinks and I dont mind, but with some I wouldn't personally share things with them, as if the info is meant for them.

berisky23 · Accepted Answer

Not really many! I've posted before about similar issues... It would be wicked to have people to talk to and have honest chats about what desires and interests you have! And have some harmless "flanter" 🤙

Bricealan · Accepted Answer

Only had one, in my life to this point, and that was in my 20's. Should have married her, but alas, that option evaporated.

Chill_Thoughts · Answer

I talk to a few people but tbh they are all either currently or previous sex partners of some sort

HSalenko · Answer

My desires are pretty tame and vanilla so pretty much any woman I'm seriously invested in.

bowenw · Answer

Very few in real life. More on here.

Finchie40 · Answer

I would have to say my Brother I can pretty Much tell him anything, cuz I can trust him

FilmGuy93 · Answer

None. I don't discuss that stuff

Andres77 · Answer

0... there is no one else

Grond21 · Answer

I have one friend I can talk about anything with. My siblings I can talk about many things with. My 2 roommates I could talk about most things with.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

A dozen. Talking about sex isn’t much of a mystery

BrookeS · Answer

Only 2 people

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have a couple of friends that I can talk about it, but I rarely do.

Reorx · Answer

I can talk about anything to anybody. My only hesitation is how they react because I know most are not like me in this regard.

PointTaken · Answer

So far I think one person. I've talked with the person over the phone and through text. Not 100% sure I can say my total desires. But that's the closest person.

Nightmoon83 · Answer

guy friends (girl) friends sisters and my partner

Kelly6 · Answer

With any friend

Hanrej · Answer

I could talk to anyone about them

FireFox001 · Answer

Two people. One is a friends with benefits tho, but not a partner. The other is a very good friend.

abitcurious2022 · Answer

No one. Your sex life should be private.

Cb142 · Answer

well tbh i have one friend at work she is a nurse and we have and do at times but only because we have been together a few times but we are i guess friends with benefits at times i guess