How much does it bother you if your boy-/girlfriend finds someone attractive that looks different than you in some way?

It could be that their ex looked different, that they compliment someone's appearance, that they masturbate to that person, etc.
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  • Not much since not everyone has a physical type.

  • I dont care.

  • I find it gross

  • If I ever had anyone. I would not care. They're with me. What does it matter?

  • Only a little bit does it bother me. Not very much.

  • Question is not clear so all answers are wish wash

  • To me it doesn't really bother me, my boyfriend and I are always making jokes about which girls are "Fap material" and I know he's got pics of other women (eg. Models and all that ) on his phone and he doesn't hide it.

    I think honesty is what makes it all right

    • If you're both comfortable with it, yeah, you can have a lot of fun joking with each other about stuff like that. I've never tried to do that with a girlfriend, though.

  • no baby

  • Oh he has a 6 pack sweet, pulls down pants to remind her of the 9 incher she has with her

  • No it doesn’t bother me at all.

  • Not at all

  • Dump her

  • What

  • I would care more if they weren't attracted to different people, it screams insecurity to lie about human sexuality.

  • Not at all

  • It does not bother me at all.

  • Im secure enough to know I'm enough

  • Most times I admire diversity and appreciate all the different beautiful features that make each of us. A beautiful woman is only a threat if she's a hefty sack of crap inside.

  • My boyfriend and I talk about cute celebrities all the time. We are secure in our relashonship and recognize that it's normal to be attracted to other people sometimes. It's acting on those attractions that's the issue not having them

    • Wtf... one thing leads to another, at first you're just attracted, and then... Of course you can't act on it if we're talking about celebrities, but that's still messed up. How am I supposed to feel if my gf's crushing on Timothee Chalamet, and decides to verbalize it often? So I should start talking about how hot I find Jennifer Lawrence?

    • BULLSHIT

  • It doesn't bother me.
    I would actually see it as meaning he is not with me just because of my physical appearance. Or because I look like one of his ex.

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