chiefly with reference to people) sexual activity, including specifically sexual intercourse.
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Have to answer this one with an emphatic "lots." Somewhat to my own surprise, when I stopped to count it out, I have had 14 sexual partners.
To start, I lost my virginity to my high school girlfriend when I was 16 and she was 15. I have also had 5 one night stands and one, what would be called today - though I don't think the phrase had been coined at that point (I was in college) one "friends with benefits." That lasted about 8 months.
Frankly, this also resulted in 6 pregnancies. One of which ended in a miscarriage. Three of which were with my current live-in girlfriend of 11 years, with whom I have two little boys and my little princess. (The first two were unplanned pregnancies. The third was planned.) My girlfriend and I love each other, she is the center of my universe, and have talked about marriage but in some weird way we feel like a big ceremony and an expensive ring would just cheapen what we have.
Also, I was contacted about two years ago by a woman with whom I had a one night stand. We did not know each other well, frankly, but we had an amazing night and, it turns out, I got her pregnant,
The thing is that she decided not to tell me and raise the baby on her own. However, as he became a teenager she decided that her child needed to know his father. So she tracked me down two years ago and now I have a 14 year old son. (My other children are 10, 9 and 7.) I am very proud of him and although it was awkward to start, we have grown quite close.
The only one I regret is a girl I dated just out of college. I got her pregnant and at first she seemed really excited - and I was, for sure. Then she changed her mind and - long story short - had an abortion without telling me. It is the most painful thing I have ever known and I miss so much the baby I never got to hold in my arms. Honestly, sappy as it sounds, when I think about that baby, it still brings tears to my eyes.
So I got off topic a bit, but there it is. Frankly, it is perfectly natural for a man to have sex. Nature made us with the instinct to implant our sperm in a female and make offspring that carry on our DNA. So we need it - not like our lives depended on it - but for emotional health and our sense of our own manhood. So other than the one case, I have no regrets and right now, with my girlfriend and our three children and my son, I have never been happier and cannot imagine my life without them.
Still, I won't lie. I have to admit that when I look back and think that I have had 14 sexual partners and 6 pregnancies - 5 of which were unplanned - gotta admit that I am a little surprised at the number... and also a little, even though I know it is silly and maybe a bit egomaniacal, a little proud of myself.
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ChrisWatersXper 2
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I averaged it out for a different question one time. I lived with a woman for 15 years and sex was a big part of our relationship. We would've had sex at least 1200 times with each other. After her my longest relationship was 2 years so I guess you can add some more to that.
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ChrisWaters
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Actually that doesn't make sense. We had sex at least 3 times a week so that's like 2200 times, plus like 150 times with my last girlfriend = around 2350 times.
ChrisWaters
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Oh well, nobody cares. I feel like I should have a trophy or a plaque on the wall for that at least.
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