How often do you fake an orgasm?

[OlderAndWiser]

GIrls say that they fake orgasms sometimes but no guy ever seems to admit that one of HIS partners could have possibly faked an orgasm. And, you know, it is possible for some guys to fake orgasms, too. Not every male orgasm produces 2 quarts of babymakers.

Have you ever faked an orgasm? How often? Why did you fake it instead of telling your partner the truth?

[Agape93]

I don’t. I respect myself and my partner enough to tell them if I didn’t finish. Nothing improves if nobody recognizes a problem

[RemoErdosain]

Wish every girl were the same

[Agape93]

Same. It would cause far less issues down the line

[RemoErdosain]

So true

[Daniela1982]

I wonder if they fake it while masturbating too?

[zeitgeist057]

I felt I needed to fake an orgasm once. I was with a girl who had a major crush on me, and I thought she was cute but she was waaaaay more into me than I was into her. We ended up dating a bit and also having sex (but just once or twice if I remember correctly).

Anyway, we were having sex and it was fine but I wasn't really that excited and quite a ways from having an orgasm when this weird thing happened. She got on top (cowgirl) and was grinding on me and I kept feeling this thing hitting the tip of my penis and kind of almost scratching it or something. I don't know to this day if it was an IUD or her cervix or what, but I did not like it. But she was having a really great time, so I just let her ride for another 10 minutes or so, then I pretended like I was having an orgasm.

When I pulled out, I did a little slight of hand to obscure the condom as I removed it and went to the bathroom. I spit into it a little bit just in case she would check it, tied it off, wrapped it in a little toilet paper and tossed it.

[Screenwriter]

Never faked one and can't see any reason why I'd want to.

[Little_Bumblebee]

I have never faked an orgasm. It doesn't do anything good. It just makes sex worse as he would think something does the trick that really doesn't.

I'm brutally honest

[YourFutureEx]

I have faked orgasm twice in my life.

The first time I did it is when I lost my virginity. Maybe the reasons include :-
•I finally realized that sex is different from what I see in porn and what I perceived
•Maybe I wasn't doing it perfectly as it was my first time
•She was seriously loose af tbh.
I got so exhausted that I couldn't stroke anymore. I was taking forever to orgasm.

The second time it happened was when I was very drunk. I never enjoy sex when I'm drunk.

I don't know if that counts as faking orgasm because I only said to them "I'm done". I have always used condoms so they may not know if I came but from personal experience, most of the women found it out when I orgasm even if I don't show it. Maybe they can feel the pulsating penis so, I don't know if I can really fake it.

[Katie1964]

Somewhere between C and D.

[AccidentalCompliance]

Can't exactly fake orgasm as a guy... wouldn't really work

[midnightmoon05]

Never fake one. Just communicate with him.
women don’t always orgasm, still lots of pleasure , loving, intimate feeling to enjoy together.

[nerdybutlazy]

I used to cuz I didn't want to hurt my partner's feeling but he talked about it, but before him I never had a man give me an organism

[rachel776]

if i'm tired i will let him go at it for a few minutes and then fake one

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I've fake it a lot of times with my exes.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

faked*

[godfatherfan]

Well your choices don't fit all options. I have faked it a few times. Not sure if it is less then 10, but it definitely is not "frequently". I was on medication that caused issue with climaxing. My ex, who was a nurse and should know better, would get all upset thinking it was her. So instead of dealing with all that drama, if I knew I wasn't going to finish, I would just fake it. I have done it a few times since my divorce also. Keeps the women from thinking it is them, when it def is not.

[Jaximus-Lion]

Never! I do have a problem down there, a nerve got damaged and it takes me long time to finish, although i never faked and orgasm, there should be evidence :P plus we makes things more playful after the wife gets off.

[OlderAndWiser]

As men get older, the volume of their ejaculate decreases and the evidence is not always obvious for older men. And there are some medications which have a side effect called retrograde ejaculation; when a guy cums, his ejaculate goes into his bladder instead of being expelled and there is virtually no evidence except for the pulsating sensation in his penis. Guys with this side effect say that it does not feel different than a normal orgasm for them.

[Amraam]

I sometimes, very rarely fake it when we are masturbating together on the phone when she really wants me to cum too but I dont have the energy for it

[Reaperbot666]

• not totally sure if any of my ex fake orgasm or not. when we did get around to having sex together.
• but I personally have fake orgasm a few times. in the past because it was taking forever or i got distracted. after about an hour or more of no release you start to get board.
• however it is better to just say you couldn't finish and talk it over. to improve the quality of sex you both have next time.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

I sorta faked one. I had like a weird mini orgasm and I could have kept going for the big one, but my partner had been working hard to even give me that one so I exaggerated it a little and acted spent once it was done.

[Gwenhwyfar]

I voted C

[Neko911]

Never have

[Yaaten]

There's no option for having never faked it. I can't select A.

[MikeTheBartender]

since my vasectomy it's a little bit harder now that I don't wear condoms that much, but before that I would say maybe four or five times in my life.

[DanishSaint]

more often than most guys I actually think... :)

[Drumlin2001]

Never

[anon1903]

I've heard some men feel bad about it if you directly tell them it. That true?

[OlderAndWiser]

If my partner is not getting aroused enough to orgasm, I want to do something to make it better for her. It is usually just a matter of her explaining what it takes to orgasm. I would much rather have that discussion than have her lose interest in our relationship. Yes, some boys with weak egos might be offended. Not a man with any experience.

[anon1903]

Noted. Thanks

[zeitgeist057]

Some might, I wouldn't. I think that's sweet that you would put on a little performance to help me feel more excited about the interaction, and it's appreciated. Honestly, I often feel like I'm too quiet during sex, but I feel a bit silly grunting or talking too much, it seems a bit forced. but I like to talk about it and find out if there's something she wants to hear during sex, I'm happy to oblige. And vice versa, if there are things I want you to tell me during sex, I like to share that with you. I think it's also the way a person is told. I think some women might say "I faked my orgasm with you." in a hurtful way, and of course if it's meant to be hurtful, it is more likely to make someone feel bad.

[elizamichale1]

I have many times as almost each n every guy wants me to tell him that he was my best ever n he gave me an over the moon ride lol so sometimes i have to play along to keep them happy

[Massageman]

I'll have what she's having. but I digress - - - - - -

Communicate. Most of the time my recipients will help guide my hand to the better areas. I don't mind "getting directions"- if the result is more enjoyable for her, it's more enjoyable for me.

[Unit1]

I don't fake orgasms. No point doing that.

I spoke with a woman I personally know about this matter once. According to her 90% of women fake their orgasm in order to not disappoint their man or hurt their ego. They also achieve orgasm much easier if receiving oral, which is why they love it so much.

[hahahmm]

Some women get O easily. Some need a nuclear powered industrial jack hammer made in Japan to even get close to O.

[monkeynutts]

I think I did it a few times, but I have had sex maybe a million times.

[OlderAndWiser]

That would be 68.5 times per day since the day you were born. :) :) :)

[monkeynutts]

Haha, yeah I don't have much time for anything else these days.

[OlderAndWiser]

Yeah, but that would be a lot of sex! 🤪🤪🤪

[Likes2drive]

I never had to fake an orgasm

[CuriousMufuxka]

C. But only because the difference between D. is astronomical! Anyway, there's been quite the many that I've pretended to cum just to get out of boring sex and into sleep.

[Jerre]

I chose A, but actually i never faked an orgasm.

[Nayyr]

I have never had sex with anyone other than myself

[Nutmustard]

I faked it once to get it over and done with because I wanted to watch the football. I know it’s wrong but I loved football long before I met my girlfriend

[Cryptic-Game]

G: I have never faked an orgasm and never will.

[Caseydahlia94]

Depends on the partner. With some- I never need to. Others it’s like 60%. Any worse than that i don’t care enough to fake and I’m definitely not going near him again.

[Anonymous]

Men can't only ladies can and do it.

[OlderAndWiser]

Wrong. Read other male replies.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe they can... LoL

[Anonymous]

I almost always have to fake it