How often do you talk about sex with your (real life) same-gender friends?

I have been becoming more social as I've been living in a dorm. One thing I've found disconcerting is that people are always talking about sex. I don't mind so much overhearing it - I actually find it interesting (for the same reason I post so many sex questions here on GAG).

But it's awkward when I'm expected to be part of the conversation. I don't know what to say because I have no personal experience. So I just say nothing, smile and laugh when expected, & count minutes until I can make an excuse to leave.

I noticed that a lot of the people always talking about sex are girls. My male friend didn't start talking about sex until female friends brought it up. But maybe he didn't bring it up first because he didn't want to seem like he was hitting on us. Maybe men talk about sex more often with other men than they do with women.

So how often do you discuss sex with your same-gender friends (in real life)?
How often do you talk about sex with your (real life) same-gender friends?
I don't have any same-gender friends in real life
Vote A
Whenever I spend time with my same-gender friends, we always talk about sex
Vote B
We usually talk about sex
Vote C
We've talk about sex during roughly half the times we have hung out
Vote D
We sometimes talk about it
Vote E
We rarely talk about it
Vote F
We never talk about it
Vote G
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  • I don't honestly remember ever talking to my same sex friends about sex, except joking around. In my opinion mine and my partners sex life is none of their business. My ex-wife on the other hand talked to her friends about our sex life.

  • Almost never these days with my 2 best guy friends cause they aren't getting laid nor do they have any friends with benefits

  • I don't talk about my sex life with my same-gender. I find it disrespectful and belittling of your woman to discuss that kind of personal life with somebody else especially my same-gender.

  • Don't have any same gender friends but here in there with my female friends

  • I don't

  • Rarely

  • Whenever I spend time with my same-gender friends, we always talk about sex and sometimes we have sex.

  • Never unless there is a reason to discuss it.

  • More like comparing notes.

  • Usually when the opposite women talks about sex with us/me then we talk but it. But sex is not a easy topic because it makes you horny same as talking about food you will get hungry so. As men we try not to bring it up with women

  • Almost all the time tbh😂

  • The topic comes up regularly.