How quick do you cum? My boyfriend cums so quick I can't get mine sometimes?

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  • I still do sometimes. I’ve always been very sensitive especially at the head because I was circumcised as a baby. I found ways to cope. For me I give more foreplay up front, oral, vibrator on her, etc. I try to get her closer. It usually times out better. If I still finish first, I make sure she always does so I give her more clit attention, suck on her nipples etc. I always make sure she gets hers! What also always works for me and for us is to wear a vibrating cock ring. I own a couple from WeVibe. It’s very soft and comfortable and it keeps me harder as well as prevents me from cumming fast and she loves the vibes on her clit. She usually cums before I do and I have to take it off sometimes to get mine.

    • But you should communicate and have him understand what helps you. If it’s more clit attention, make sure he’s helping you during sex. I even like using clit stimulating tingly warming or cooling gel and rubbing it in first and giving her oral and making her crazy. Then she usually always gets hers even before mine. Try things and see what works. It used to be embarrassing but I wanted to be a great lover so i kept researching and trying new things. Eventually we found what works and it’s been a major game changer. Just wanted to help!

  • Because u gotta learn how to take pleasure from only penetration , my girlfriend explained me that and after 2 months she had first orgasm without touching her clit , u have to focus on that , u can't just simply cum like that u are not a dude

    Its because she been masturbating solo for past 2,3 years without boyfriend and her pussy got used to clit touching , now 4 months ago since we are together she stopped , and she cums now in like 3 minutes ;)

Most Helpful Girls

  • LOL... IKR...
    Have been with some that are so quick, then wanna ask if I came too!!!
    Oh yeah, I came... I came to the wrong house!!!
    #responsibleforherownorgasms

    • Girl yes

    • Ahahaha... thanks

    • thanks for the MHO!!!

  • Shame on him he should make sure you cum first or time it just so that you can together.

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  • From penetration to orgasm about a minute. I can last longer before penetrating and get her off by rubbing her clit and doing oral. I'm trying to train myself to last longer by going slow and pulling out before cumming.

  • When I was 15 or 16, a couple of minutes of slithering into a wet pussy made me cum, but since then, I've trained myself to make the girl cum at least a few times before I do.

  • He can learn to control it and time it so that it can be any speed. He’ll learn way easier if you tell him what you want. Sometimes it should be all about you. Sometimes all about him. But usually both people.

  • Depends on the girl, if she’s good it only takes 15minutes or so. Also depends on the round etc

  • I can control when

  • That’s disappointing. Do you ever cum?

  • He needs to be a gentleman and use his tongue on you giving you multiples then besides i feel real man always eat pussy and please their woman first just my opinion though

  • I fake.

  • Depends. On average it takes me 30-40 min but sometimes it's 1hr and 30 min and some like 10 min.

  • Foreplay and he should back you come first..

  • I can last all night cuz I'm a stallion

  • 10-20min for the first time

  • Make him make you cum before penetration etc

  • I can last over an hour

    • I usually don't step on other comments, I mean no disrespect but an hour really? For the first time? If that's true you haven't been with the right girl, I'll guarantee you won't last an hour with me.

    • I love a good challenge.

  • i am not quick cummer, got good stamina and control.

  • That's simple. Either give him a quicky earlier, and when it cums time for you late. He's not ready to pop.

    Or, have him play with you. Finish you off first before he gets touched.

  • I usually take about 2 minutes.

  • How long time he take to cum

  • 20 mins

  • 15-20 minutes

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