How should I approach the first time having sex with my boyfriend?

My boyfriend and I are having sex for the first time tomorrow night! How should I approach it. We have never seen each other naked.
how should I approach it?

Im not a virgin.
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  • Men are different with different preferences. So, I will comment on how I would like it with a new girl.

    Be seductive but don't exaggerate it, follow his lead and do your part by guiding him, you can use your hands to guide his to your sensitive and trigger points, love making is team work. Assist him to undress while he is undressing you, Most women are just there waiting for a man to do all the work (I guess most are jealous that you gonna enjoy it, that is why they even close their eyes LOL), in a new relationship it will work because it's a brand new pu$sy, once you marry, shit gets boring, he will be bored to do it all the time, so have to learn to work it now. Be open to new styles and experiences. Moan when he is hitting that G, don't fake it, he will never know whether he has got it if you fake it. It's also good to discuss about alternative ways to have first, I remember this chic who guided my d*ck to her a$s and I was very pissed off since I am not open to anal s3x.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Be sure you are really ready!! MAKE SURE HE IS WEARING A CONDOM!!! Even if you are taking birth control pills!! "You can't get pregnant, the first time!" BULLSHIT!!!
    Take your time, and it is OK to stop, and say no, and not ready!!
    It should be a GOOD thing, and something you want to remember, right? Make it that, and make sure he respects that, or he is the wrong guy!!

Most Helpful Girl

  • would suggest approaching him from the front... he's not equipped to do anything to you if you approach him from behind..

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  • Just take it slow really take your time with foreplay giving and receiving. Jumping in the first time straight to sex makes for a not so memorable time.
    Just be honest and talk about likes and dislikes first and have fun

  • Is he a virgin?

  • I'd say kiss, hug and let you hands wander and let his hands wander, then let things happen however they happen

  • Do what I told u in pm

  • may be start with cuddling and kisses.. rest go with the flow as u r not virgin so u better go as per the moment

  • Approach it the same way you did when you lost your virginity, but be open to trying something new.

  • You shouldn't until he commits to you. But if you wanna make a huge mistake and cry about it later when he's gone go right ahead.

  • If he is a virgin do missionary. As for him not seeing you naked yet, he'll like it when he does.

  • Just relax take your time and shove everything else have fun

  • Is slightly intoxicated an acceptable answer?

  • Just take it slow and have fun with it. Don’t build up the hype and make it awkward, just roll with the fun.

  • Well tell me more

  • It is best u take control

  • Hot lingerie and play hotter/colder for the foreplay!