I don't ask, it just happens.
Different women respond differently to me. It may be a few days, a week, or maybe longer.
It depends on how quickly they feel comfortable with me and their level of trust in me. If I break that trust by asking, it will never last with them.
Besides, I find it much more fulfilling when it just happens on it's own. It's not like just going through the motions, they are more relaxed and passionate.
In my current relationship, I started talking about sex on our second date. It's an LDR and a big investment of time and effort for me and I want to make sure that we are on the same page. We still haven't had sex but at least I know that it is something that she looks forward to at the right time.
I did the same with my current girlfriend, although we aren't long distance. I didn't want sex by our second date, but I wanted it before proposing and she was a 32 year old virgin and had a 10 year relationship in the past. To me it seemed reasonable to be made aware of whether or not she was waiting for marriage
Exactly. And I am in a position where I may not get remarried but still proceed with a monogamous, committed relationship. Plus, at my age, some post-menopausal women no longer have an interest in sex while others can't get enough sex. I don't want to get in a relationship where we only have sex on Christmas and the Fourth of July!
@twalli Thanks for MHO!
Honestly, I've never discussed sex with any guy unless we've established we're in a relationship together. And even then, I've never slept with any cause I like to wait until I'm 100% trusting of that person.
I don't have it, just talk about it.
I can discuss it on the first couple times out. But I’ll wait several months minimum before actually doing it.
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I never have done but I was 16 when I dated
The first relationship got to 5 months before she took the lead in that department and the second was sexual before the relationship started
On the honeymoon.
For me it depends
Within the first couple of dates, you said your girlfriend was a virgin until 33? Just asking because the current woman I'm dating, we haven't had sex yet and she claims she's a virgin at 29
We didn't have sex until 6 months in, but I will have sex before marriage with the person I marry. If she is going to wait until after marriage, she won't be marrying me.
So am I right in what I said? Well if I remember you were a virgin until 27 and she was until 33?
Closer to 27.5, but yeah.
i believe you said, your girlfriend was a virgin until 33?
After a year at least.
Must just happen no planned times for how the relationship must progress
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