How was your early sexual relationship like?

So today I saw my 10 yo niece kissing an older guy on the lips. I spoke to her and she said he's 14 yo. Apparently he's a guy she had a crush on since she was younger And now they're a couple. They love each other and are ready to have sex. I tried to convince her to speak to her parents about it and to not have sex with him because she's too young. But she won't listen to me because "I'm wrong".
It seems they did research on the internet. She thinks it's gonna be painful only the first time and after that it's gonna be less painful and soon will follow pleasure.
I told her it's gonna be painful even after her first time because her body hasn't fully developed yet, but she's convinced it's gonna be painful only the first time and everything it's gonna be fine because he's gonna be gentle with her.
I don't know what to tell her anymore. Maybe I'll talk to her parents.
I'm still curious if she's right.

So what I'm asking is if there are any women that started their sexual life at 10 and if you did, how was after your first time? Still painful or it became bearable the more you did it and started to feel pleasure?

PS, You can post your reply anonymously. Also I don't need answers from women that started their sexual life later
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3 mo
Answers from women that started their sexual life from 9yo to 12yo are much appreciated. Especially 9yo or 10yo since are closer to niece's age
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  • I started at 12, but I knew other girls that started earlier than me.

    • Do you mind sharing some info? You can do it anonymously if it's embarrassing

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  • So you are fantasizing about having sex with a 10 year old.

    • So you dumb AF

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  • Tell her she will get pregnant if she has sex. That will scare her off.

  • You should 1000% talk to her parents