Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health How would you feel if you found out that your partner used to sleep with one of their close friends?
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They were never in a relationship with this person, they just used to sleep with them before they met you.
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22 45As long as it happened prior to us being together i don't see a problem.
It wouldn't bother me. I'm confident enough in matter of sex to handle any friend comparison.
I voted that I'm not sure how I would feel about it. But my guess is that I wouldn't be exactly thrilled about it.
Hasn’t bothered me yet
I'd understand because I've done the same. I would actually feel better if they stopped sleeping with them because they met me vs having slept with them before and a chance of lingering feelings of some kind.
I'd be a hypocrite if it would bother me at all. Lol
I'm very open about these things, they don't bother me and can actually be good sometimes to spice up your sex life
It wouldn't bother me too much but i would wonder why they had sex with
one of their close friends?
The past is the past. Your partner is now with you and wants to be with you only. I wound not even give it a thought.
Couldn't agree more.
I wouldn't be alright with it.
It doesn't matter if my partner was sleeping with someone else before she met me. But if she was still sleeping with them then I won't like that.
I knew she wasn't a virgin when I got with so really I could care less
Is there pass that doesn't matter. Unless there friends right now yeah I wouldn't trust them but that's what is all about trust.
And emotions like jealousy.
His previous partners is something I would ask aboutat the very beginning of the relationship because I think I have a right to know. If I found out he is still hanging out with someone he used to have sex with, that would be the end of the relationship.
If i found out later in relationship, it would mean he lied about it previously, which would still end the relationship.
In short, I wouldn't be happy.
Yes, I'm monogamous, it would for sure end our relationship.
It would definitely bother me for sure but not a deal breaker
Well if you mean by sleeping, literally sleeping i wouldn't care much. But if by sleeping you mean they were riding the hobby horse, then i probably would judge them negatively for it. I've been single all my life, but you don't see me using other women.
I don't get why some women feel it's ok to do that with guys.
Feminists 3.0 told them to do so: They are "allowed" to do whatever they want to do. I asked them about cheating, guess what I got back? No clear answer.
I dated and slept with a girl with a short period of time till she got a boyfriend. Now the three of us get together from time to time.
What do you think it will happen between the girl and me?
If it was before we dated I wouldn't ask about it.
It wouldn't sit well with me at all
Same here. To much polygamous people here, I guess.
Un less it's something that doesn't add up I couldn't care less. if someone really cares for someone they doesn't cheat.