HUGE vagina lips?

Question

my vagina lips are really loose and big and it makes me feel really insecure and i dont want guys to see it because i find it disgusting, does this bother guys at all and are there any cures for it?

super147 · Accepted Answer

I would bet that your vagina lips don't look as huge as you think they do. Things always look worse to us than they do to other people, because we're unable to be objective about our insecurities. I would bet that you look normal down there.

As for cures, the only fix for more prominent labia is surgery. A surgeon can trim the labia under general anaesthetic. This is quite a common operation these days, largely because women are a lot more exposed to images of vaginas these days than they would have been in the past. The internet is to blame for that, particularly the online porn industry. Young women can be forgiven for thinking that all vaginas look amazingly neat and tidy when that's almost all that you see in porn. They don't realise that you don't get any kind of true perspective on women from porn.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Almost all guys will be thrilled no matter how you look, believe me. This question comes up at least once a day and it's always the same answer from guys who aren't trolling/being obnoxious: You're fine!

Any guy who has spent time around women and keenly observed them will not be the least bit surprised by a body image insecurity, but he will wonder what the big deal is.

In my personal experience, I've never seen any labia that turned me off and I can't imagine any ever would. 😊

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Sure, some guys might find it a turn off (and others a turn ON), but generally I believe that if you have a strong enough connection with a guy, he isn't going to care - he's just going to be happy to be there in that moment with you.

You're probably being way hard on yourself and should try not to overthink things. If you're feeling especially insecure, you could look up pictures on tumblr of submitted vulvas of real people; it will show you how different everyone is and that no one is perfect.

Unesjomajo · Accepted Answer

Im being honest; Some guys will hate it and even be disgusted by it but there's also the ones who prefer it that way.

This_is_my_username · Accepted Answer

I don't think it's disguting. I don't think any man will be like oh Mayne... Fuck. Pussy to big. Not gonna smash 😂😂

eurochick · Answer

I think big lips are reasonably common. I think most guys dont care. To them a pussy is a pussy.

Purpleronnie · Answer

Nothing to feel disgusted about.. I personally love it as I'm sure many guys do :)

Chantelleroberts97 · Answer

I've got big pussy lips, never had a guy complained , if they gonna smash you they don't care how the pussy look

Chico_brah · Answer

I like smaller labia but I would never look at a pussy with longer lips and say 'ew' aha. If it really bothers you I think there is a small procedure in which they actually strip the long lips to give your pussy a more aesthetic appeal.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Labiaplasty

Nightshades · Answer

most guys would be indifferent I doubt any guy would stop sex just because of that.

MelanieP · Answer

I got a friend who has and her boyfriend loves it.

cth96190 · Answer

I love big lips. More with which to play and more upon which to suck. :-)

genericname85 · Answer

you mean the minoras or majoras? XD

dolemite68 · Answer

I prefer big lips I hate when girls have that little line pussy where you can barely see any lips or the clit. looks like they're in middle school haha

ciscokid · Answer

there is no normal. love what you got I enjoy all shapes and sizes.

Dragan · Answer

My wife has a 1.5 inch long labia minora. I love it. We both enjoy cunnilingus and penetration.

Lithium65 · Answer

honestly, I love it. it's more for me to play with and tease.<3

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

Can't comment without seeing them but I like big puffy labias

unknownpoet · Answer

it's disgusting. it's a major turn off... I don't even want to think about it

NightOwl8801 · Answer

Your vagina is beautiful , no need to be worried about how it looks and you being self conscious about it.

ND4SPD31 · Answer

Omg! Love it! Don't be ashamed of what u were born with! If I was ur man, I'd play with them and love to watch them around my dick when we had sex. :-)