The best Idea would be to make a safe plan with a local domestic Violence center or a woman's advocate Group and get away from the man.
I am sorry you find yourself in that position. No one deserves that.
Unfortunately if you are at risk of bodily harm due to him being abusive you have to be careful with your actions.
It is a terrible situation but for your own safety you will have to pretend to be in love with him and pretend to adore him while you come up with a plan to escape. Its sickening I know first hand what it is like but your physical safety comes first. Then when you are well out of danger you will be able to seek help for the emotional turmoil you suffered.
Find a local friend
Find a family member
Search for a local community program who maybe able to help you get away.
You need to start saving small amounts of money and hiding in different places he would never get into. It has to be small amounts so he doesn't notice
Then you need to start grabbing your important documents and hide them somewhere you can easy get to them after you leave.
Give them to a close friend or someone you can absolutely trust.
Money and documents are the most important thing to have set a side to make your escape.
If you can find somewhere safe to store personal items such as a comb one outfit tooth paste and toothbrush than do so but these are all items that can be replaced
You yourself and your person documents are the most important thing you need to leave with. Have small stashes of money helps too.
Read up on escaping an abuser.
I wish you well.
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@Hope65. Listen to her!
Thats sexual abuse from your husband. Tell him you don't want to and if he gets abusive physically or emotionally, then report him if you have not consent to give blow jobs to him. Its not a healthy sex relationship, becareful and tell him you don't like it and you'll do it when you want too not him. Please please be extremely careful, and don't get manipulated either... you are not at fault in this situation ok. Be strong and let someone you trust know whats going on so you will have support and a witness on your behalf. Stay safe.
thanks for the MHO
holy smokes girl... you need to file for a divorce..
I will agree a BJ everyday is too much... but the stuff about him being too old, thats BS... one day you will be old too, but I will bet you will still like sex... what will you do when your younger mate informs you that you are too old for him to continue haviing sex with you? ... and besides that, you say he's your husband, didn't you think about the ramifications of getting old together when you got married? most of us will realize that as our mate ages, so do we, and we can go on loving them knowing we are in it together, til the end...
I dont know how old he is or how old you are, or how your sex life has came to be what it is, but it seems like you have BOTH lost respect for one another... its a very rare instance where this can be repaired, so YOU alone have a decision to make... either learn how to communicate and stay with him, or get out...
I take it his olde than you What he is demanding is being unreasonable In Historical times a marriage depicted that the woman had to offer sex Wiling or not The law was changed and Women were given more rights under sexual assault or rape I'm getting the feeling that your relationship is dying or died Keep it together he has no rights to demand such attention and is acting without consideration of your feelings Your not a sex doll your an individual and he needs to remember that you demand respect
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!How long have you been married and how much older is he than you? Does he not want sex and only blowjobs? Seems odd to me. Offer him a handjob and see if that helps.
get a life cunt
No. It will worsen the case.
The matter is really serious. The 'love' has reduced. The relationship is getting worse. Be careful.
That is not right. He isn't entitled because you are married. If you fear abuse now chances are it will happen. Please seek out some help.
no.. it will only make him mad and hit you for biting him.
Just how old is he that you dont like him anymore?
If you two are not enjoying being married, have you sought marriage counseling and/or made an appt to see a sex therapist?
What is causing the problems?
Sounds like you should leave and stop pretending. The fact that you say you don’t want him touching you and he’s abusive is an obvious sign you don’t like him that much and he has NO RESPECT for you . Maybe you’re with him for specific reasons but those reasons shouldn’t make you stay when you aren’t sexually attracted to him and he ABUSES YOU.
Divorce him and stay as far away from him as possible.
Love does not "force" you to have sexual favors you don't want to participate in.
Love places the wellbeing of another person over ones self.
You people get married to someone you don't even know, and now you're suffering for it. Get away from him. He's a criminal and needs to be arrested.
Did you consider, uh. . . leaving him. . . since it appears that you hate him?
Wooooouw hell no don't bite him this will backfire on you immediately. Call the police and tell them that he forces you to. Tell them you want to move out and he won't let you. You are women so do what you got to do and get out of there immediately.
How come you just don't leave , hey if your not happy ur not happy ,, can I ask you this why is it all about him when is it your turn ,,, I love BJ's. But I don't care about them I would rather make love fuck , and make it about her it's no fun if it's all about me ,, to me it sounds like he needs to get in shape so he can stay up with you he's is to old if he can't take care of you ,, he's out of shape and lazy he needs to get in shape
A marriage is like a hurricane there is a lot of blowing in the beginning & when it’s all said & done your house is gone.
Looks like it’s time for divorce
Why are you with him if you're not attracted to him?
I would see a therapist and find out what the issues are. There might be a lot of deeper issues that you are not aware of.
What does he do for you?
Why the fuck wld yu still be with someone abusive? 🤦♀️
An idea wld be to leave obviously it cld get worse.
If that dnt wrk Lorena Bobbitt his dick off
No, why are you still in this marriage?
Divorce.
No just divorce him my ex was like this he’s grab me by the hair when I said I didn’t want to he eventually started beating me every day
Are you safe now?
@Guardian45 yes 🙂
Leave call the police for rape (husbands do NOT have the legal right to force sexual contact on another person, not even their own wives) file for divorce and move on with your life.
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