I admitted to my boyfriend that he has left me sexually frustrated?

He rolled over and went back to sleep.

That means he doesn’t care doesn’t it?
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Superb Opinion

  • it pretty much seems that way.
    he got his and he doesn't care about you.
    Might be time to find someone that places your needs before his.
    I doubt this will change over time, so it seems like a breakup will be inevitable so you might as well end it now.
    I'm not saying this in a bad way.
    Life is too short, multiple orgasms can be fun.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Because you’re using him for sex and he was sleeping. My gosh. These questions get dumber by the day.

    do you have no romantic life?

    • I was sleeping and he woke me ip trying to have disappointing sex. It has been this way for 4 years. He cums, I don’t.

    • Then find someone who isn’t all about sex. Seems to be all either one of you care about. If he’s waking you up pretty much just raping you and you’re not enjoying it. Break up.

    • It’s kind of rapey if he’s having sex with you in your sleep

Most Helpful Girls

  • He seems very selfish and taking you for granted. There is no point in having sex with someone who isn't concerned about your enjoyment.

  • Yup he's selfish. Speak up about this whats bother u and if its only one sided satisfied, sorry not sorry boy ill find another guy

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yeh, he used you and didn't care if it didn't please you..

  • Not necessarily. Maybe he is frustrated with not knowing how to please you and he doesn't know what else to do. What can he do that will satisfy you? Have you told him?

  • It might not be that he doesn't care as much as he's clueless which amounts to the same thing. One is deliberately not caring and the other is not caring by being clueless. Dump him. He doesn't have your needs in mind.

  • dump him

  • now is up to you...

    if you want another four weeks, four months or four years of the same or worse... that is up to you know, it is no longer about him

  • Yeah kinda

  • He's a smart guy... no matter what he might do or say would start a fight. You both know that, and he decided to avoid a fight.

  • Pretty much yeah. Why are you still with him if he doesn't even seem to remotely care about your wants and desires?

  • It means that he is an alpha male.

    • An alpha male with a tiny dick, is submissive as fuck and sleeps with his baby blanket. Sure

    • Yeah yeah sure 👍

  • Poor thing.

  • It sure seems like he doesn't care. Did you ask him for something specific that he wasn't into?

    • No, we’ve just been together for 4 years with 0 satisfaction on my end. Attempts to talk about it in the past went just like they did today. Ignored essentially.

    • That's a long time to live with zero satisfaction. Are you prepared to move on from him because of it? You are more than welcome to PM if you wish.

  • A sex intervention maybe needed with a sex therapist or simply get up and leave him since he's being a selfish lover in the bedroom.

    Sex is all about mutual pleasure 🙏 and your boyfriend doesn't seem to have got that memo nor understand considering it's been 4 years now @nottacocat6969

    P. S. gotta love a delicious 69 ♋️ 😉👌

  • I'd say its time to get a new boyfriend.

  • I'd say he didn't care. Time to get a new boyfriend. One that always pleases you

  • Wow…thats cold of him…

  • Immatured, selfish

  • selfish

  • It means something else is wrong that you need to work out

  • I think it is time to find some satisfaction in your life elsewhere.

  • What do you mean “sexually frustrated” what is your definition?

    • Don’t masturbate or have any sexual release for months and you’ll know what I mean.

    • Oh, but also sleep next to a woman every night.

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