I almost sent a video of myself masturbating to my boss then chickened out?

Question

Should I go ahead and send it? I only want to send it if it will make him fuck me / want to fuck me. If not then there’s no point as it’ll just be awkward.

I took a video of myself naked holding up a little photograph of him to the camera then sitting it down beside me, turning and staring right at it while I rub myself to orgasm and then come. It wasn’t all loud and fake and porny, I mean I made some noise when I came, couldn’t help it, but it wasn’t too over the top and then at the end I said to the camera, ‘I only ever think of you when I come’ and switched it off. ☺️

It’s kind of cringe watching it back but at the time I thought it would be sexy lol. Really don’t know whether to send it but I’m so sexually frustrated and desperately want a fuck from him. Been hot for him since I started working for him almost a year ago.

Opinions? Thanks...

Ozanne · Accepted Answer

In ten years, is this something you can tell yourself you were proud of doing? It's not worth it. Think of the great ideas you had before that were neat at the time and be thankful they didn't happen, and look at this situation and just don't do it if you feel the same way.

Besides, have some respect for yourself. You can get him to sleep with you doing other things rather than that. That's just a bad message to send a guy, much less a guy you work with AND who is your boss. Most guys will say "oh I'd love that" but deep down if they had to think without their dick for a second, they'd think it was not as sexy as you think it is. Save that stuff for your boyfriend when a relationship is established, and even then.. think that through too.

pleasestopthis · Accepted Answer

I'm cringing so hard right now. So inappropriate and it could get you fired, and it could be taken as a sexual offense.
The fact that he flirts occasionally by no means make it right to send a explicit video like that one. Sure, he could like it, but there are chances he won't like your unprofessional behavior and it could backfire.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Just fyi if a man did this in his work place the outcome would be that he would lose his job as a minimum and probably end up in prison and or on the sex offenders register.

So you choose who you want to be, if you are ok with acting in that way, carry on, you will get away with it and probably even get everything you want.

If we lived in an equal world you would be put into a prison though.. so, maybe something to think about..

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

Don't do it!!! Unless you already have another job lined up.

potatoiswhoiam · Answer

If you wanna lose your job (and dignity) go ahead

nachosaresexy · Answer

That's weird man.

NightFlirt · Answer

Send it to him for Christmas, he'll love it.

Red_Arrow · Answer

Go ahead and send it. But find another job first so that you will not be out of work for long.

iseekpinetrees · Answer

He can fire u for sexual harassment lol

ohshee · Answer

Ok if you want to do a practice run I understand so go Stearns and it to me I will give you my input and will tell you if its worth sending to him. ,, I mean come on if it's no good you would rather have me tell you then him. Right😊

GalwaysLittleBird · Answer

He will love it. That said, be VERY careful to know the man well. Most guys like sharing those videos with coworkers. Do it only if you are sure he wouldn't do that.

summiter · Answer

Don't... you do not know where it will end up on the internet

Fred1998 · Answer

I say test the waters and see if he a little interested then send it l. Not all men can what you want to send 😁

Wisdom-Strength-Love · Answer

hell yeh do it. You can't go wrong. as a girl. Now let a man do some shit like that to a girl.. You won't get results.

Dargil · Answer

The whole thing is a horrible idea,

SystemOfTheMachine · Answer

You can very easily get fired for this. He could also decide that it is sexual haressment of some kind if you have misread him. I mean you can do it, but there is a decent chance this could backfire badly.