I am a virgin kinda scared of hooking up with a girl any tips?

[jbreezy]

[PrettyPriya]

Well, don’t rush it is #1 tip. First time with anyone is typically clumsy. What I mean is even if you are experienced, first time with new partner usually is a bit awkward.

You won’t know that persons likes/dislikes until you have been with them for a while. This is amplified if you are a virgin. Don’t worry! It gets better with time

[RearEntryGuy]

Personally, I did not lose my virginity to a hook up, and 30 years since, I did not regret.

My primary reason then was morality.

But today, after I know a lot more about sex, intimacy is an important key to better sex.

And you can't really get intimate with someone you hardly know.

Hence my suggestion is, be patient.

Seek out a girlfriend where you can be comfortable with physically. Bare minimum, you must feel ok with her naked and not feel extremely awkward.

When you find such a girl, losing your virginity to her should be a lot better because it involves both your physical body and emotions.

[loveslongnails]

Yeah.. wait till you're not scared, for one.
And seriously, I mean this... try and find an older woman who can school you in how to please a woman. By older I don't mean a couple of years, I mean a hot cougar or someone 10 or so years older. When you learn what you need to know, you'll get all the younger girls you want because you'll be a rare 20 year old - one who knows what he's doing in bed.

[ushagomez]

Don’t be scared. Everything comes pretty much naturally and if you let her know it’s your first time she will enjoy guiding you

[loveslongnails]

I agree with "don't be scared" - be excited, but not scared. However, I disagree that "everything comes pretty much naturally". Men are not born knowing how to please a woman, or knowing anything about her anatomy. It's not a naturally occurring force of nature. It's a real learning curve, and some guys never do learn how, or even care much about it.

[CharlesScene]

Foreplay like oral, kissing, and hands are key. Especially if it would be your first time, most of us do not last long. So do the other things, and she will tend to had a good time.

Also, don't be silly, wrap your willy

[Avicenna]

Don’t be scared- everyone has a first time and you’ll enjoy it. Better for your first time to be with a girlfriend.

[Iron_Man]

Get married first

[Anonymous]

You will be amazed how much you know when you go to do it, and the stuff you don't know won't matter. For your first time just stick it in and cum. After that make sure she's enjoying it.

[Anonymous]

Yeah. Look for something more serious than a hookup.