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Sexual Health Please don't ignore my question and don't judge me. I am pretty helpless.
I am a 21 years old female living in a north European country I will not name. But I originate from an Arab country. I came here when I was 18, for college. Coping up with the living expenses was impossible and 20h of work a week didn't solve much. An American friend from my college told me I was very beautiful and Had a sexy body and that I could make a lot of money if I join an escort agency. I considered her proposition since I was single, broke and only been sexually active at 17 until I realized I made a big mistake and never slept with anyone ever again.
I contacted a couple agencies and saw what they had to offer. This one I work with caught my attention as they pay very well (besides what clients pay) and are extremely picky. (On the intellectual level as well).
I liked that. I speak 5 languages, have a fine taste in arts and am studying in a good university. Plus all the physical requirements ( no tattoos, no piercings, no scars, etc). This agency works specifically with very wealthy men from Europe and america, it has many well chosen girls, we go spend some hours or days with a client depending on his will. Some are very private and mostly just want sex, others are more open and treat you like a girlfriend for rent. Take you on dates, business trips etc.
I got in this business being so uncomfortable at first, but there was SO MUCH money and gifts and everything I got used to it. I had 11 clients in two year. (Each one For long term).
my problem is that I fell madly in love with my current one. He is an extremely wealthy Italian man. 40 something the most handsome client and partner I ever had. Very classy, muscular, tattooed, and most importantly sweet.
the thing is, he is very private, we don't go out in public. But in private he treats me in an incredibly good way. He spoils me very much, is the first man to not treat me like a prostitute. He takes care of me
I am an escort and I fell in love with a client. What should I do?
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I know he is just lusting over me, but it's been 7 months that he's been seeing me and he is still the same. He treats me like some sort of godess like he has never seen a woman more beautiful. Last month he asked me to leave the agency but I refused to. So he made them fire me. We fought about it. He said he would offer me all I need in life but I had to leave that job and be exclusive. He said I also can't have a boyfriend because he can't let anyone have me
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We technically live together but clandestinely. In the middle of all this I fell in love with him. He is everything I ever wanted but I know I can only have him in my dreams. He is a real alpha male, with a reputation and two kids from his ex marriage and I am a student half his age. I just got to the point where I can't stand this feeling anymore. It hurts. I love him and it has to stop. Please advise me
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What Girls & Guys Said
14 24Just be brave and tell him the truth and see his reactions. if he reacts in a positive way he is yours. if he reacts in a negative way tell him that you were just joking and you know what to do...
in the end you are gonna do what you want but tell him to be in an open relationship or you are gonna stay an escort.
something you don't expect
see what happens when you try to have your cake and eat it too
I don't think there's anything wrong with what you do, and you should figure out if he's ashamed to be a client. If not, maybe let him know that you think of him in a less professional way.
talk to your client about it
Its interesting, I know how it feel when you are in love. Don't think much, just spend time with him, and don't show that you have been fall in love with him. Do one thing sart ignoring him, make him little to do efforts to get you like replying his messages late, and dont talk to him so often. Just do that actually we want a think more which is not close to us.. The more you ignore the more he will be frustrated and irritated, just see the reaction how he respond. And please tell how everything goes.. Because i am very much interested to know your love life :)))
Talk to him about it, what's the worst thing that could happen?
He could leave me.
if he leaves you because you want to change your relation with him, does he really care about you? Like I apologize for being blunt but if it were me I'd talk to them just so I wouldn't be able to say "What if?"
I get your point. In ordinary situations I would think the same way. However, he is a nearly perfect man and of all the women who would gladly give themselves to him, he chose to pay for an escort because he says he has no time for commitment and no will to engage in something serious since his ex marriage went bad. so to avoid any emotional drama with any woman he would see, he chooses this way. He hadn't been with anyone since. He told me since day 1 that I have his daughter's age and that whatever we have has to be private. He told me I should know what he is paying me for and why. My fear is that I tell him how I feel for him and he decides we should stop because I crossed a red line..
Don't tell him you love him, just be casual and go along with it
How is everything going now?
Write a story about it/make a movie about it.
lol, my best friends tells me that the whole time.
Do what you want.
Try tomeet Mr Pussygrabber.
Just say it like it is: You fell in love with his WALLET.
I have been with men whose wallets were 10 times thicker. :)
You're a hooker. Naturally you're going to get attracted to men's wallets.
it's actually the opposite. when you are a high class escort, you get SICK of the thick wallets because they are everywhere and you want something more than just money. thanks for your useless contribution though
lmao, sure. A hooker that wants something more than money.