Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health So my boyfriend told me a big fantasy is having a threesome with another girl. Naturally, I get jealous because of the thought of another girl potentially having sex with him. He told me it wasn't about that, but it would be so hot to see another girl go down on me.
I gave it some thought and told him I would be down if there was another boy present, because that would only be fair. He was not okay with that 😂😂
Was I unreasonable? How do we solve this? Have any of you had a three/foursome while in a relationship?
I am conflicted about having a three/foursome with my boyfriend. What should I do? Have you ever had one with your partner?
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10 47i don't think it's ever a good idea to bring other people into the relationship.
i feel it won't end well for someone.
Hard NO. Zero interest.
It could ruin your relationship in my opinion. That is something that once you do it, it cannot be undone.
Your not asking for something I outrageous. He wants to add another girl and was the one to suggest it. He put it out their and you said it was fine as long as you can have another guy too. A relationship is a 2 way street. I would definitely be careful though because sleeping with other people can get addicting. Yes I've personally had multiple threesomes. I end up giving the new girl a lot more attention though and feel obligated to give the relationship girl attention as well. It's unhealthy because he's going to want to do it more and more. Same as you, once you have a new dick and if you REALLY like it. Your going to want more and more.
Do not do it if you feel uncomfortable because it will tear your relationship apart. Only time it's ok to do this is if you both are on the same page and have rules in place of what's ok to do and what's not ok to do.
Well, you should stop being a fucking thot.
Sounds like he’s a douche.
if he wants polygamy it goes both ways
Why not to have it alternatively, I mean once a girl and next time boy participating in 3some?
You're smart. Trust your instincts.
any sort of some, is immoral
Never had one. Good luck
I would be in a similar spot to your boyfriend. I would never have sex with another guy involved. Just tell him that you don't want to. Some fantasies should stay fantasies.
I think you're fair to ask him such a thing. Personally, I think threesomes are very tricky because both participants must be okay with it, which is very tricky and there is usually a person that is not fine with another. I find threesomes to be too impractical to actually want to have one personally so I would not bother trying to have one.
If you think that you would be into a four some instead of a three some and he isn't, too bad for him.
It would only be fair to you to have another guy present.
And no, I never have!
Two woman and 1 man is more my preference, I love watching my man fuck another girl up the ass while she's loving eating my pussy, iv also had threesom with 2 other guys but but if I had to pick id rather with 2 girls
If he doesn't want it with a guy, don't accept it with a girl. Simple as that
If you are uncomfortable, you shouldn’t do that
Communication is key for a good relationship
I would never do that. Not even worth thinking about, if you ask me.
Do yourself a favor and just dont do any of it lol and save yourself the trouble. Some fantasies are best left unfulfilled
Don’t be pushed into anything. But if you want certain things in this experience you should be able to get it. It’s not all about him.