I am on the verge of losing my virginity, but I am not sure if I should?

I am so close. Like literally it is planned, but I am scared that when I do meet up with my friend, I will chicken out. 😅
Like, I am so unsure whether I want to keep it or lose it.
Yea, I am not 100% pure, if you know what I mean, but I have managed to keep my virginity.
I actually can't make up my mind.
What exactly do I do? 😔
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Most Helpful Girls

  • So you are going to screw your friend? When an anon asks this kind of question I just consider it a troll. Why would you ask anyone on some website a question like that when it is solely your decision? You need to bone up on your literary skills to make is sound more believable. Perhaps you never had a class in English Comp?

    • I don't blame. This site it full of trolls, but I am serious. Thanks for the concern, either way. 💜

    • Well if you are not sure if you should you have answered your own question. When in doubt - don't!

  • The fact that you aren’t 100% sure if you want to do it or not is a good indication that you aren’t ready

    • Yea, maybe you are right. ;-;

    • Don’t do it if you go through with it I have a feeling you will end up regretting it wait until you are 100% ready and aren’t going back and forth with your thoughts

    • Yea, I probably would regret it. I won't so it, then. Thank you so much. 💜

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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's up to you it depends on how much value you put on virginity. For me it was just something to get teased about and was glad to loose it. Remember it doesn't make you physically any different being a virgin it is just a life experience, a measure of having had sex or not.

  • Why are you planning to surrender your virginity now?

    • Ehhh... because I want to know what a dick feels like inside me, but I am not quite sure I should... lol 😅

    • Curiosity is not a great reason to surrender your virginity. If this is a mistake, you can't undo it. Re-think this decision.

    • Yea, I am keeping it. 😅

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  • If you're second guessing it, then don't do it. It's something holding you back. So trust it.

    To me if I'm hesitant in doing something, I hold back.

  • Do what feels right. If you're not ready, don't do it. If you think you are, go for it. Best part is you only have to worry about it once.

  • keep it dont loose it

  • If you aren’t sure you want to or can’t make up your mind, don’t do it. Those are some signs you’re not ready.

  • If you have any doubts, I’d wait. You want to make sure you have a good first experience 🙃

  • If you arnt ready then dont risk it, it's something only you can decide in the end tho

  • don't just hand it to anyone. make sure it is someone you know cares for you.

  • If you're completely unsure of doing something, the safest thing is to not do it.
    You need to ask yourself how important that title "a virgin" is to you.

    • I have been taught to wait till marriage, so being a virgin means quite a lot. Especially, if people expect me to stay one till I am married. 😔

    • I didn't ask for other people's expectation of you or their ideals pushed onto you, but your opinion. And if you still share the sentiment, ask yourself if this friend is worthy enough to be given the most unique thing there is to this planet.

    • Yeaaaaa, I am not ready to lose it. ;-;

  • Its up to you, its a personal choice. I'll say even though I waited until I was in a committed relationship and am in love, as much as i love sex, sometimes I wish I could have my virginity back, it was such big part of my identity for so long, but now I am not a virgin and i am discovering who I am inside the bedroom, a new chapter for me

  • Go ahead and lose it if that's what you want, there really is no point in holding on to it just for the sake of staying a virgin

  • If you aren't sure, then don't do it. It's okay to wait for the right circumstances to come along for that.

  • If you aren’t sure, keep your skirt on.

    • Oki, thank you... lmao 💜

  • does the thought of having sex with him give you positive feelings? then go for it.

  • You will always feel the same untill you go through that experience also even if you wait till marriage you would still feel the same you will have cold feet it's quite common but choose wisely don't make decisions if somebody is putting pressure on you take your time analyse be in the mood then act

  • Direct M me and we can go over the pro's and cons.

  • if ur unsure why do u even consider it?
    if ur unsure u should jus say no and hold it off until u are sure,
    girls... 🙄🙄

    • not the brightest bulb in the bunch

    • loljk

  • I would wait until marriage.

  • Most people are nervous for their first time. But if you have any doubt that you want it, it is best to wait until you are 100% sure you want it.

    • Thank you. 💜

  • If you aren't comfortable with losing it, then wait. If he cares about you he'll understand. If he doesn't, then it's good you didn't give it to him. I am not saying you have ti wait this long, but my girlfriend didn't lose her's until she was 33.

  • It's up to you! Not with a friend though. You will lose your friendship over it cause it will get okward. There are options, try porn you can have royalties the rest of your life. Send me your info I can help in that direction. I would also suggest go to the getto or projects. You can get fucked right and they will teach you all in one night.

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