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Sexual Health I can't get over my boyfriends sexual past. What should I do? How do I get over it?
Anonymous
I grew up in a Christian house hold and was always thought to save my virginity for marriage and same with my boyfriend but he had meaningless sex with some random girl 3 times. On top of that they were all hookups where the girl was trying to get back at her ex boyfriend. we have been dating for a year now and i can't get over his past... I cry everytime I think about how he didn't think about his future and that he could have given that gift to a girl that loves and cares for him so much. I think part of the reason it gets to me so much is that I know the girl, she is in my grade, and I see her everyday at school. She is literally the hoe of the grade having sex with many people. He is different now, treats me amazing, and he regrets what he did. I want to forgive him but it always seems to come back and makes me cry. Sometimes I even can be rude to him and bring it up making him feel bad. I don't want to though.. How do I get over this? If a year later I still can't get over it, what's the best thing to do?
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What Girls & Guys Said
9 19You can't blame him for what has already happened before your relationship, now it doesn't give you any obligation to stay with him or have sex with him. However, you will find that this is a very common thing that you'll just have to deal with, especially if you have partners in the future. On top of all of this though, you should never, EVER shame anyone for their sexual partners or experiences. It's THEIR choice not yours. The only time you could and should hold it against someone is if they cheated on you in a monogamous relationship
Just bang him now
I think you shouldn't be such a bitch. personally he shouldn't waste his time on you if you think that's such a big deal. he can do way better.