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Sexual Health I cheat on my boyfriend with a black guy and now I feel bad and I'm confused. Please help?
Anonymous
First of all I want to say sorry for my English because is very bad. I'm a 23 old white woman and I have a relationship with a white guy for 5 years. We love each other very much, he is sweet and he treats me very well. The only problem is sex. Not for him but for me. We only have sex once a week and he does not want to get kinky with me in bed. He is so boring and shy in bed. I have told him a thousand times that I want him to be more kinky, and he wants to change but I think he doesn't know how. I'm really tired of this situation. Three months ago I went to a club with my friends and I met a very tall and athletic black guy who gave me his number. I made a huge mistake and I texted him one day when we had a big fight with my boyfriend. We met once, twice... now me meet more often and we have sex. Just sex. He is perfect in bed, he lasts a lot longer than my boyfriend, he is very passionate, he has a very good rhythm, his movements are perfect... sometimes wild and sometimes very soft. Sometimes he is very kinky and he whispers dirty things in my ears with his deep voice... I have an orgasm every time I have sex with him. And no, it's not the "big black d*ck" thing. I don't care about the size. He is really good in bed. And now I don't know what to do. I love my boyfriend but the sex with this black guy is more than perfect. The sexual attraction between us is very strong. But we don't have an emotional connection. With my boyfriend is the opposite, deep love but not a strong attraction and no passion. What can I do now. I feel very bad I cheat on him with this black guy. And before someone tell that I'm a sl*t or something, I want to say that I have slept only with two guys, my boyfriend and this black guy. Please help.
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What Girls & Guys Said
5 27Dum him and start dating with the black man, you just blacked.
I see a baby with no daddy in her future.
Once you try black, there is no way back
I have told him a thousand times that I want him to be more kinky, and he wants to change but I think he doesn't know how. I'm really tired of this situation but she said she wants to be kinky but dosent have the time to teach him how wowwwww, and if your tired of not being in a suppotive relationship he should break up ith you
You're a slut, lol. He need to leave your ass and find a woman with a lower sex drive, you need to be a better person. That's all. Bye.
It depends on his dick size
Why would you do something like that if you say you love him? You should sit down with him and talk about your sex life. If he doesn't know how to turn it up, show him and tell him exactly what you want. If he still doesn't do it and you're still feeling dissatisfied in bed, then you need to either deal with who he is in bed or you need to break up with him. It's very unfair for you to be cheating on him while he is being honest towards you. You should do this ASAP, in my opinion.
It is like they say " Once you go Black you never go Back."