Whats your body count?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Somewhat to my own surprise, when I stopped to count it out, I have had 14 sexual partners.

To start, I lost my virginity to my high school girlfriend when I was 16 and she was 15. I have also had 5 one night stands and one, what would be called today - though I don't think the phrase had been coined at that point (I was in college) one "friends with benefits." That lasted about 8 months.

Frankly, this also resulted in 6 pregnancies. One of which ended in a miscarriage. Three of which were with my current live-in girlfriend of 11 years, with whom I have two little boys and my little princess. (The first two were unplanned pregnancies. The third was planned.) My girlfriend and I love each other, she is the center of my universe, and have talked about marriage but in some weird way we feel like a big ceremony and an expensive ring would just cheapen what we have.

Also, I was contacted about two years ago by a woman with whom I had a one night stand. We did not know each other well, frankly, but we had an amazing night and, it turns out, I got her pregnant,

The thing is that she decided not to tell me and raise the baby on her own. However, as he became a teenager she decided that her child needed to know his father. So she tracked me down two years ago and now I have a 14 year old son. (My other children are 10, 9 and 7.) I am very proud of him and although it was awkward to start, we have grown quite close.

The only one I regret is a girl I dated just out of college. I got her pregnant and at first she seemed really excited - and I was, for sure. Then she changed her mind and - long story short - had an abortion without telling me. It is the most painful thing I have ever known and I miss so much the baby I never got to hold in my arms. Honestly, sappy as it sounds, when I think about that baby, it still brings tears to my eyes.

So I got off topic a bit, but there it is. Frankly, it is perfectly natural for a man to have sex. Nature made us with the instinct to implant our sperm in a female and make offspring that carry on our DNA. So we need it - not like our lives depended on it - but for emotional health and our sense of our own manhood. So other than the one case, I have no regrets and right now, with my girlfriend and our three children and my son, I have never been happier and cannot imagine my life without them.

Still, I won't lie. I have to admit that when I look back and think that I have had 14 sexual partners and 6 pregnancies - 5 of which were unplanned - gotta admit that I am a little surprised at the number... and also a little, even though I know it is silly and maybe a bit egomaniacal, a little proud of myself.

[AviatorTom]

This has become the #1 question, surpassing the "penis size" questions.

My standard answer... About 10, I don't keep a log book.

[Anonymous]

Who keeps count, and why is it any of your business anyway?

[Vesuvius87]

It's one

[Abbycado]

Zero

[EmmaMary]

Including my husband 5.

[strateguy632]

too many to count but probaly less than 200!

[TheSpectre]

Only with yo mama, TROLL 😏🤣

[Asker]

Man, you don't know my mama, that says worse about you than me lol

[BarryLiverstone]

I’ve answered this 10 times

[GoodgirlNatalie]

0 to 10

[Anonymous]

Voted B

[Anonymous]

I went to a major university in the USA, so that's where most of the body count comes from. Probably about 40-50 girls in 4 years. The next 35 or so were in the following 15 years.