I'd rather cuddle and talk than have sex. Am I doomed?
But yeah, Girls in 2018 are very sexual. They have caught up to guys (except me XD). But yeah some girls I know who are my age own vibrators and dildos and stuff and masturbate, hell, they've told me all sorts of kinks they have (like threesomes with two guys, bondage, rough sex, group sex). Maybe I'm just a weirdo but these things don't appeal to me. I'd rather just spend time with a girl I cared about, treat her well, cuddle, talk and stuff like that... so I'm not gonna lie it's kinda disappointing to learn that girls are all about sex and kinks and stuff. Don't get me wrong, I'd have sex a lot but I'd much rather have loving sex than rough sex but apparently girls like it "rough" and all of that.
I don't wanna judge, even though I am a cynical asshole XD. Now let me just state that I don't think there's anything wrong with girls liking sex and stuff but that just isn't the kind of relationship I aspire to have.
So I'm basically a loser, beta-male right? No girls will wanna be with me and stuff? I'm too soft right?
*Yes, I'm a virgin, and most girls aren't. Most girls have sex all the time and yes, they sleep around. Hey, it's 2018 and girls should embrace their sexuality and most of them do. Most girls I know who are in college and stuff have slept with a lot of guys. I know one girl who is 20 and has had sex with around 60 guys... she said most girls are like this. I couldn't imagine having sex with that many people. So yeah, I guess I'll never be enough.
So am I doomed?
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