I find him really attractive, he turns me on a lot but I don't like the sex (he cums within seconds) So everytime I end up disappointed and?

... really turned off. Do you think i should try having sex with him again since i really like him a lot or i should just leave it since I'm never satisfied?
by the way he's not my boyfriend.
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  • well I'm going to help you out first of all tell him to ware a condom the rubber will insulate him from the friction and he should last longer by a few seconds... mayby minutes if he puts 2 on he should last a lot longer now for the best part go to the dollar store and buy a battery powered toothbrush it's stronger than a lot of the toys at the adult toy store and it only cost $7 bucks it will rock your world this is the reason I came by to tell you about the toothbrush let me know what you think about it if you do try it out what would be even better is if you would record your first time trying it out and let me see it... hay I'm an expert at pleasing women and I love to watch them cum.. yeah ok I'm a perv but I'm helping you out if you like it and you want to pay me back this is how I want payment but regardless if you do or not... have fun and your welcome

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  • get him to finish you first with his mouth. Or just talk I him about it. Bahaha. Or make him finish you with his mouth after... that’ll teach him!!!

  • Thats the thing is you can't change him but you might be able to teach him ,, first of all he needs to want to get you off I mean that should be his number 1 goal is to make it about you he should be able to look in to your eyes and read the color if your cheeks the way you breath and moan and know everything you want with out a word for me weather it is in real life cyber sex sexting phone Sex I woukd be able to read you. And make it all about you and make you cum hatred than you ever have

  • Then don't let him in, or touch you, and make him keep his underwear on, or maybe better, make him wear yours, until he satisfies you, and gives you at least a few oral orgasms!!
    Most guys are going to be a little unsure, about wearing women's underwear, so maybe you can get him to make an effort, for you, and then, after that, he can have his joy.

  • Have you tried talking to him about how you like him but he doesn't satisfy you?

  • How many times have you tried it?

  • Put some anesthetic on him before your start, such as NumbNuts.
    Teach him to be more patient with YOUR needs too.

  • I think you should tell him and try it again with you coaching him through it. Then if it's still bad just leave.

  • When your getting sexual make him cum quickly like with a blowjob then when he cums, help get him hard again and have sex, he will last longer, not sure how longer but longer that before

  • Just stay and do it eith him more and more. There will come a time when you will be asking why he no longer cums before you

    • Whyy?

    • He will become saturated with your uae of his organs

    • If you have ever more frequent sex he will get used to your physical attraction

  • Does he cum really fast everytime? As a guy I can understand maybe the first 2 times as you should take it as a compliment because you get him so worked up bit if it is multiple times over & over he needs to work on his control.

    • Actually we had sex only 3 times. So you think thats okay and i should give it time? I just thought that he did that because he only cares about his satisfaction.

    • Well I personally like to prolong my orgasm as long as possible only because the release is that much better but when my lady gets me all hot & bothered especially with a lot of foreplay, that makes it especially hard (pun intended) we love cumming together not always easy but with time, it can be accomplished.

  • Yes, give the guy a chance but also talk to him about getting you off orally.

  • Why aren't you cumming? Why's it all on him? My S. O. cums within like sixty seconds of me fucking her, usually. So what are you doing?

  • Well maybe its time to read the eso book its extended sexual orgasms it will help teach him how to sxstend orgasm

  • Well you wouldn't be asking if you weren't already considering it. Maybe try to see if you can give him some prepleasure. For instance, before you go out or before you normally would have sex, try to get him off, like a quick hand job, oral sex etc. Then have sex with him after you go to your planned event, movie, concert, dinner etc. Then he most likely won't ejaculate so fast the second time. Also remember make the first one not really intense and then really lay it on thick for the next one.

  • do whatever you want

  • Common problem with inexperienced guys, Best thing to do is make him make you orgasm first, oral or fingers or even with a toy, after that he can go for his full 2seconds

  • It’s called a little blue pill.
    Tell him to take it and be a man!

  • I have the same problem i can cum in like 15 seconds if i wanted it sucks

    • Im actually afraid to have sex with another person out of embarrassment

    • It's something you can't control at all?

    • It’s like driving fast up a mountain and at the end is a cliff you can't slow down in time

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  • Tell him he is not allowed to cum and that you control his dick. If he cums then you punish him. He needs to eat your pussy before sex to make sure you are satisfied. If he cums too fast then you use a strap on to punish his ass. Then you put him in chastity for a week. He will be aching to get out and then he will know who is in charge.

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