I find him really attractive, he turns me on a lot but I don't like the sex (he cums within seconds) So everytime I end up disappointed and?

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... really turned off. Do you think i should try having sex with him again since i really like him a lot or i should just leave it since I'm never satisfied?  by the way he's not my boyfriend.

Lov2PlezUgurl · Accepted Answer

well I'm going to help you out first of all tell him to ware a condom the rubber will insulate him from the friction and he should last longer by a few seconds... mayby minutes if he puts 2 on he should last a lot longer now for the best part go to the dollar store and buy a battery powered toothbrush it's stronger than a lot of the toys at the adult toy store and it only cost $7 bucks it will rock your world this is the reason I came by to tell you about the toothbrush let me know what you think about it if you do try it out what would be even better is if you would record your first time trying it out and let me see it... hay I'm an expert at pleasing women and I love to watch them cum.. yeah ok I'm a perv but I'm helping you out if you like it and you want to pay me back this is how I want payment but regardless if you do or not... have fun and your welcome

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

Have you talked to him about this? If so, did it help? If not, try this.

John_Galt · Answer

get him to finish you first with his mouth. Or just talk I him about it. Bahaha. Or make him finish you with his mouth after... that’ll teach him!!!

ohshee · Answer

Thats the thing is you can't change him but you might be able to teach him ,, first of all he needs to want to get you off I mean that should be his number 1 goal is to make it about you he should be able to look in to your eyes and read the color if your cheeks the way you breath and moan and know everything you want with out a word for me weather it is in real life cyber sex sexting phone Sex I woukd be able to read you. And make it all about you and make you cum hatred than you ever have

JackSmy · Answer

Then don't let him in, or touch you, and make him keep his underwear on, or maybe better, make him wear yours, until he satisfies you, and gives you at least a few oral orgasms!!
Most guys are going to be a little unsure, about wearing women's underwear, so maybe you can get him to make an effort, for you, and then, after that, he can have his joy.

Mikelaughs · Answer

Have you tried talking to him about how you like him but he doesn't satisfy you?

Reaperbot666 · Answer

have him read this over

BoredNCrazed1324 · Answer

How many times have you tried it?

Massageman · Answer

Put some anesthetic on him before your start, such as NumbNuts.  Teach him to be more patient with YOUR needs too.

RHK36 · Answer

I think you should tell him and try it again with you coaching him through it. Then if it's still bad just leave.

wondering_guy · Answer

When your getting sexual make him cum quickly like with a blowjob then when he cums, help get him hard again and have sex, he will last longer, not sure how longer but longer that before

AmeerX · Answer

Just stay and do it eith him more and more. There will come a time when you will be asking why he no longer cums before you

Opuse1530 · Answer

Does he cum really fast everytime? As a guy I can understand maybe the first 2 times as you should take it as a compliment because you get him so worked up bit if it is multiple times over & over he needs to work on his control.

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, give the guy a chance but also talk to him about getting you off orally.

Posterboy56 · Answer

Why aren't you cumming? Why's it all on him? My S. O. cums within like sixty seconds of me fucking her, usually. So what are you doing?

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Well maybe its time to read the eso book its extended sexual orgasms it will help teach him how to sxstend orgasm

Bang5luts · Answer

Well you wouldn't be asking if you weren't already considering it. Maybe try to see if you can give him some prepleasure. For instance, before you go out or before you normally would have sex, try to get him off, like a quick hand job, oral sex etc. Then have sex with him after you go to your planned event, movie, concert, dinner etc. Then he most likely won't ejaculate so fast the second time. Also remember make the first one not really intense and then really lay it on thick for the next one.

GreenGold1992 · Answer

do whatever you want

TheRealJokerSA · Answer

Common problem with inexperienced guys, Best thing to do is make him make you orgasm first, oral or fingers or even with a toy, after that he can go for his full 2seconds

Valnac · Answer

It’s called a little blue pill. Tell him to take it and be a man!

CreamySeed · Answer

I have the same problem i can cum in like 15 seconds if i wanted it sucks

Aus15688 · Answer

Tell him he is not allowed to cum and that you control his dick. If he cums then you punish him. He needs to eat your pussy before sex to make sure you are satisfied. If he cums too fast then you use a strap on to punish his ass. Then you put him in chastity for a week. He will be aching to get out and then he will know who is in charge.

Younghungguy17 · Answer

Yeah just tell him he needs to finish you

CubaPirate · Answer

Have him give you a manual or oral orgasm first before you consider letting him have any pleasure. It's highly likely that you'll both find this really hot. If not I suggest buying a sex toy to finish yourself off if that what youd like (by the way he's likely to enjoy the show I know I would). If all this fails then look to someone else to provide some satisfaction. Good luck and PM me if you need any further advice.

steveranger · Answer

You can find another guy for penetration and you can stay with this guy for oral

townhouse · Answer

That's shitty I know that feeling to well

memer2020 · Answer

force him to give you oral and make him wait for his turn

jogor20 · Answer

Shame, you need another man... Do you have a hot body?

gandolph3 · Answer

try giving him a hand job then start foreplay

Surfstyle1 · Answer

Not why

Anonymous · Answer

Give it time. This is quite common with someone new in the beginning. Also if he hasn't had sex in a while (or ever?). As you guys get more comfortable with each other, and he relaxes and gets less in his head, he'll last longer. And, the sex doesn't have to stop when he does. Keep going for round 2. Lots he can do (oral for example) while he recoups and gets hard again. Like you, the more he relaxes the better it should get. But it'll take a few times. You can also spend some time just being naked together (if you can?). Watch a movie naked or something, gets you both comfortable being naked together.

Anonymous · Answer

Get Stud100 off of Amazon and he will go much, much longer. It’s inexpensive. I think of it as a sex toy.

Anonymous · Answer

means you're a whore.

Anonymous · Answer

If you really like him then try work on it. If you aren't too bothered about him and its more about sex then I would kick him to the curb. If it's just sex then he isn't giving you what you need so isn't serving his purpose