You should tell him, whether in person or over text, whichever is the right way to go about it. If you can't bear the weight of the child being born, then, you may want to consider giving it for adoption, giving the child a chance to live. You need to resolve in yourself what you want to do, whether keep the child and raise it, or give it for adoption. But, either way, he needs to know.
How to tell him: Hi, it's me. Sit down. I have some news... yes, I'm pregnant.
"He said that if I get pregnant, it's on me." He can say whatever he wants. If you have his child, he is liable for support until the child is 18. If he really didn't want to have a child, he should have worn a condom.
If he really REALLY didn't want to have a child, he should have had a vasectomy.
Just tell him like you’re telling us now. If he’s a dick about it and doesn’t live up to his responsibilities as a man, then you sue him for paternity when the child is born and at least get financial support out of him.
Does it sound like it’s gonna go badly? Because he literally said it’s on me if I get pregnant 😔
But it’s not just on you. He has a moral responsibility to help, which you should remind him of. He also has a legal responsibility to provide financial support. He’s the one who decided not to pull out, so he needs to grow a pair and live up to his responsibilities. If it goes badly, then it goes badly but you have to tell him and then react accordingly.
As long as he is not an angry person then I’d recommend telling him. Maybe send him a text if it’s less stressful. Birth control is never 100% tbh neither is contraception.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Well fortunately for you its on him too, because that's how the law works. Just tell him that he's going to be a father, he should know.
What’s the likelihood that he blocks me? Lol
Well he might yes if he's immature, but that doesn't get him out if his legal obligation.
This is a tough burden to bear, but if he's the father, than it's on him as well. You have too tell him, and if he tries dodging responsibility's, than get the law involved. He is equally responsible for conception, and you both need to come together and deal with this like adults. Good luck 😃
Just tell him directly.
He deserves to know. Just tell him. He's gonna find out eventually anyway when your tummy starts to show.
at some point you are going to have to have that conversation with him.
Like it or not he is involved, he is going to become a father.
The state can help you out with that, at least for trying to go after him for support if he decides to bail on you.
Hopefully he will come around and accept the fact of his resopnsibilities, remember, it took both of you to do this, and help out.
It is easier to raise a child with a partner.
Good luck.
Do you know which guy it was?
I was only sleeping with one guy. So yes I know
Oh! Okay. You said, "friends" with benefits so, I thought there was more than one.
You have to tell him, even if you are going through with it. Even if he reacts like you believe, you'll also feel better knowing you made the right decision to share.
Do you think he’d react badly after him saying the whole “it’s on you if you get pregnant”
it's certainly possible, so that you should be prepared for. Super sperm and egg situations can happen
What is super sperm? Lol
This is why you don't have casual sex! Also, condoms break or have manufacturing imperfections all the time (most of which are too tiny to see)
You have to tell him, you are both responsible for the child if you don't terminate the pregnancy.
With a child support notice
Hi. Remember you didn't use a condom and I was too stupid to stop you? Well now you are going to be a daddy.
i mean as you said. he told yo it's on you. which i don't get. was it you asking for sex without a condom or what? and how did that happen if you were on birth control?
I asked but he said he didn’t have a condom but was still down to. And you do realize birth control isn’t 100% right?
Birth control is said to be 99.99% effective but the 0.01% is probably just the few cases where they couldn't proof human failure. Anyway. The situation sucks, i understand. Guess just tell him anyway and see what how he reacts.
Birth control is NOT 99.99% effective 😂
Considering that he told you he didn't want a child before even having sex doesn't sound good. Also having a child will somewhat decrease your chances of finding another man. If you are in early pregnancy, you might want to consider terminating. You are both responsible and should tell him as soon as possible.
Just tell him and prepare yourself for child custody support
Tell him. If he blocks you or ghost you. Get that money from him. It isn’t on you only when he also participated willingly. So if he won’t step up, take his whole soul from him. That’s what I say. Don’t sugar coat anything. Tell him in person, that you are pregnant. But do it with someone around or people around if you don’t know how he will react so he doesn’t do anything stupid
He will eventually find out
You can not hide it from him... He will see you growing bigger...
Well he sounds like an asshole so maybe by court order asking for child support.
Say “you got me pregnant”
You may be raising g a child alone but make sure he is paying child support the the next 18 years. That is his price for not being responsible.
He's a real piece of s**t. He needs to grow up and be a man
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