I created my account here to have other opinions about it, he said that i can't use any cleavage, since im 18y, bc a lot of people stare it. Personally, i never notice anyone doing it, and i wouldn't be bored about it.
Cleavage is an amazing thing. Seems so simple but can truly captivate men. He’s looking out for you in a way he feels is best. It’a from a place of love, no doubt. Yet, he may also be having a hard time seeing his little girl growing up so understand that component.
I think, if you’re being reasonable, then cleavage is just a part of life and understand that there is a time & place for everything. Church, family events, a wedding, dinner with the parents, may not be the best place to go full chest deep cleavage. Limit it to a little peek. Going out with your gal pals, a college party, a date, maybe give off a little more show but be aware that it can have an effect you may or may not always be comfortable with.
dad is right. boobs are sex organs, and it triggers very low level functioning in his brain. memories of when he was a child.
on daily basis, it's the two matura brains getting along with each other. so you want to know each other and like each other as priority.
Cleavage is one thing when it’s entirely intentional… For example, my sister has much larger breasts than I do, and my father tends to call her out for her cleavage more than me. But it’s not that the shirt is revealing, it’s that her breasts are larger. It’s not something that she can change. So I would think about that first, and then maybe ask your mom about it or your friends in person since they know what you look like
If you live at home he probably doesn't see you as responsible and is still naturally trying to father you.
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Make him see that you won't always have him to decide what you should or shouldn't do. His job as a doting father should be that of guidance, not to make demands.
In the eyes of the Law you are an adult, he has to learn to respect that.
There's no need to fight out every debate. Just keep it down inside the house and outside the house you do what you want.
obey no doubt.
Depends on if you live with him , parents house , parents rules.
You are probably unobservant because we do. He is being a dad and protecting you.
I think it's one of those times you have to agree to disagree and move on. Accept you have different opinions or make a huge scene about it damaging the relationship.
You're a legal adult. It's your body. Wear what makes you comfortable and per whatever ethical or religious convictions you might have.
He sounds like a bit of a prude.
How do you USE cleavage?
All it is is a sort of indentation BETWEEN your tits so, it's not like you're SHOWING your tits!!
Besides, you're 18, you're an adult! You're not a pubescent little girl, anymore.
If you're still living at his house you should listen to him.
I believe so, you will only attract the wrong crowd, your cleavage shouldn't be what attracts people to you, that should be your personality, well that of course depends what results you are going for of course.
Wise, i guess
All I know is that your father has a reason, some women don't even have a father and it's why I believe you should consider it at least.
I heard girls who lost their father teen years have a very hard time coping. My belated father had his issues…but we always respected him and loved him till his death at 80. Makes me feel so sad for kids who do not have their parents around.
He is right that guys will look. I suggest you ask your mother or other females for their advice.
honestly i think this is bad parenting from his side. which is ok. nobody is perfect. he's probably a dad of an 18 year old girl for the first time in his life. he's free not to be perfect. but it think instead of forbidding shit, he should help you actually properly understand what it does with other people and in turn with you, when you decide to display your sexual assets in public. understand the consequences and learn to behave properly. and in order to successfull in the process of learning to behave properly, i think he has to allow you to make some mistakes. as long as you can still learn the right lessons from it. like you gotta find out what sort of person you wanna be and him dictating the place he wants you to arrive won't help you find that place even if that was the place you would eventually wanna be if you know what i'm saying.
Maybe he’s right
What was said in the fight?
Listen to your dad. Modesty can go a very long way at your age. You'll get attention either way
Listen to him
if you have cleavage, be aware of what kind of attention you are attracting
Well, he's right about the staring part, but its not like you are underage. So I side with you.
You are legally an adult. You can do what you want.
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