I had sex with my dad's friends when I was younger. Should he know?

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My dad is in construction and his friends/coworkers are fun, but real dirtbags. They're these typical womanizing douchebags, funny though, while my dad can come off as kind of the loser of the bunch. My parents had a short breakup once after being together for 2 years. Mom was only 18, he was 22. In that short period, mom wanted to piss him off I guess and seduced his friends. I think she had sex with about 8 of his friends in those 2 months. I think that shows how much his friends respect him, but he keeps them coming over, let them drink his beer, sit in his jacuzzi, borrow his car etc. Never really got that friendship. Dad knows about all that. They even make inappropriate jokes about it to tease him and he's a little bothered but fine with it.

I was a really difficult teen, coped with borderline, and learned that I could cause a lot of commotion by having an inappropriate amount of sex in inappropriate situations. These dirtbag friends of my dad of course took their chance to hit on me and I of course saw a perfect chance to piss off my "boring ass dad" by actually letting them have a go. I was only 16 to 18. I sucked one off in the jacuzzi, one in the toilet, fucked one in his car and even one on his bed when he wasn't home. Each one also had sex with mom so yeah, pretty bad stuff if he'd know.

I know he got over mom's adventures with his friends, but I'm not sure how he would react if he would know about me. Some of those friends also made inappropriate "like mother like daughter" jokes which he of course didn't get. Should I say anything? I do feel really guilty now and he knows I couldn't really help my actions cause of the borderline. Should I get it over with and tell him, or would I do less damage by keeping it in the past and never mention it? This has been on my mind for a long time...

Jesse_Pinkman · Accepted Answer

That's a fucked up situation you have created. What were you thinking when you decided to seduce those guys. Your father is innocent but a bit fool. Your mother is so cruel and crazy. And you choose your mother to be your role model. You should be the one to solve the drift between your parents and you're building more trouble for your father instead. But anyway, you can now help your parents to be happy again. Just forget about all these sex stuff and beat their duchebag's ass and put your father away from those friends.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You were a slut in your youth, your dad doesn't want to hear about and probably knows

CheerGirl38139 · Accepted Answer

You need to talk to a therapist.

I know someone who has a similar life experience, and it's been very difficult for her.

See a mental health professional and start working on your own emotional and mental health.

Good luck. ✌

aialex · Accepted Answer

Part of me hoped this is a troll fishing. And another part just wanted to strangle you and the rest of your father's 'friends' and feed all of you to the sharks.

Paris13 · Answer

Silence is always Girly Golden Here, dear. xx

EmmaMary · Answer

Congratulations on being awarded the title of Troll Of The Day.

wankiam · Answer

i dont think you need to tell him unless you want to hurt him

WalterRadio · Answer

For a minute, I thought you were Ann Dunham.

boggboss · Answer

There wernt wrong like mother like daughter

Jo1991 · Answer

Don't tell him that will break him so badly On a side note, this is pretty hot in a disturbing way haha

vald9inches · Answer

its sounds like your dad gets off on it so why not?

MarketData · Answer

If there was ever any truth in this story it's time to let sleeping dogs lie, as it were.

9inchestrong · Answer

Don't tell him. 1st. He has some really shitty friends. Fucking his 16 year old daughter on his bed? Fuck. You got taken advantage of. Also, it seems no one fives a shit about this man or his feelings. Not your whore mother, nor your dads douchebag friends, nor his slutty teen daughter. You all should be ashamed of yourselves.

burrbreezy · Answer

Fuck I want a mother daughter tag team sounds fun and hot people need to open up a have fun

Ikdaz · Answer

Maybe give him a shot with u

Anonymous · Answer

I wanna be friends with your dad sound like you and your mum are a couple of cheap whores. But then again the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. You dad should abandon you and your slut mother and get some therapy. Fuck both of you if i was him i would kill myself he sounds like a real little bitch. If i was his friend i would cum inside you and your mum. Have you ever considered you might not be his?

Anonymous · Answer

Tell your dad lol.  I did it and my dad loves me

Anonymous · Answer

Get over yourself. Once again like every other borderline this all about you. Get a grip. If you want more adventures call me and my friends. If not do everyone a favor and self delete.