A shower handy has problems. You can use soap as a lube and there is a short time you have the right balance of friction and slip. Then running water blocks sensation. One receivers opinion is to use cheap dollar store aloe Vera lotion. It has and keeps the right combination od slip and grip. Also you have to keep your footing in the shower, which draws your mind away from the task at hand. Next time, make a production out of a Masseuse style 2-hand hand job as the main rvent with him comfortably on his back and you sitting up attending to him.
1 0 0 0I've gotten a few dozen handjobs but I only ever came from 2 or 3 of them. I had difficulty with that as well. I suppose it didn't help that she wasn't the best at it but she never really had time to hone the skill either.
To answer your question you could try a different method every time, or just power through it and take however much time would be required. I guess practice makes perfect.0 0 0 0
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(22)Is he uncircumcised? If he is that would explain it. Intact guys don't really need a lot of lubrication because the gliding motion of the foreskin already provides that function.
0 0 0 0no he is
ummmm... when you give him a blow job, his dick is wet. when he fucks you, his dick is wet. That argument doesn't hold water...
0 0 0 0You need a thick lubricant and a firm grip. Basically, your hand needs to be like the inside of a vagina.
0 1 0 0He can't cum with it all lubricated!
Well, you don't want to overlubricate. Don't forget the tip. Friction with the tip is critical.
www.cosmopolitan.com/.../Good advice from Cosmo:
"Don't forget to pay special attention to the super-sensitive corona (the ridge where the head meets the shaft) and frenulum (the thin ridge that runs the length of the underside of his penis). Periodically massaging them with one or two fingers will make him swoon."
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I am certainly like your boyfriend.
0 0 0 0ok so you don't use any lub?
none what so every. and so sometimes blowjobs and sex don't work for me.
Oh god he can't cum with a blow job either! he said that he sometimes uses a thin sheet do you do anything like that?
I don't like lubrication personally, I'd rather have the friction and no it doesn't hurt, feels better to me. Another tip is to play with the balls to, we like the whole area touched not just the shaft or the head.
0 0 0 0ok thank you for your input
Shower is different. I'm the same way. Running water isn't good lube lol. Your saliva can work well enough, but you're gonna be tugging a bit before you're sliding.
0 0 0 0Your guy's dick has got a crocodile's skin!!
Wow.0 0 0 0Funny you should ask. I came across a bottle of lotion that was my Wifes and , I don't know why, but it reminded me of how when I was younger and constantly jerkin off I never even considered used lotion. I liked the friction, and I have a thick stick and would grab that thing and go for it. Was never irritated or sensitive or anything.
0 0 0 0Hand jobs suck I think it always hurts when my girl does it she tried going like sideways and bending it back to far it isn't rocket science
0 0 0 0Sometimes if guys masterbate to often they will have a hard time finishing when someone else does it. Watch what he does and ask him to show you how he does it. He can use your hand and explain.
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