I have been questioning my sexuality lately, Am I Bisexual?

Am I Bisexual?
Am I Bisexual?

I don’t have any sexual experience but I know that I like men but for the past two years I have occasionally thought what it would be like to be with a woman. When I listen to audio porn 99% of the time the voice actor is a man but I’m able to get off when it’s a woman as well.

I feel like I would be okay with a woman performing sexual acts on me but I don’t think I could do the same for said person and I’m not attracted to breasts or vaginas, though I have seen a woman and thought “wow, I would sleep with her”.

when I think of relationships I always think of men in a sexual and romantic way but when I think of being with a woman it’s always in a sexual non romantic way. It would probably be more for my pleasure unless it turns out that I am in fact able to touch someone else’s vagina without feeling grossed out.

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  • So you're for sure bi-curious. Mostly straight but with some tendencies toward being attracted to females. This is actually pretty common amongst girls. Most girls I know have a slight interest or attraction to other girls even if it's a selfish one where they want to be pleasured but don't want to eat pussy themselves.

    My recommendation is always just at least give it a try. You're fighting your own mind because you're not sure if this is something you want to admit to yourself about how you really feel.

    If you do try you want to set yourself up for the best possible experience. Find a nice girl who's into it and make sure she has a very freshly cleaned pussy. If you have a preference for her let her know and ask if she'll do that if she hasn't already. Most people, guys and girls, prefer hairless pussies. They just look and feel nicer.

    Once she's properly groomed start slow and just start tasting around the outer lips where it's all basically just regular skin. As you feel more and more comfortable start making your way inward to the inner lips and up around the clit. If you're still digging it tray tasting some of the juices that are undoubtedly flowing onto the bed.

    If you're still ok with that you can try the real deal and start flicking your tongue around the hole.

    If even that description has you a little turned on I think you owe it to yourself to give it a try. If you don't like it then you'll know and you won't have to keep wondering.

    Good luck. Hope it works out.

Most Helpful Guy

  • You might try this: Before COVID struck I was in a threesome with a married couple living in Fullerton. I always wanted to try, it and never had the opportunity. Contact SDC "Swingers Dating Club" - you get a free trial period. The are really looking for women as there are too many single men looking for a 'hook up" I was lucky and found a married couple, and the wife told me her husband was bisexual, and that did not deter me from going ahead with it.

    They were a GREAT couple, but COVID soon hit us and F#$%$ up everything as you know.

    Once in bed, I could not get 'hard' with his wife... nervous... so I want down on her and the hubby started to rub my limp penis. It did not bother me, nor excite me as I am not bi or homosexual, and that, of course, secured my feeling so being heterosexual, although the husband had a very hard erect, small penis, right in front of me.

    A situation like that should demonstrate to you, your sexual preference. Give it a try.

Most Helpful Girl

  • It's normal to be attracted to women, it doesn't mean you want to date them or anything. Sometimes we have those thoughts, doesn't mean we want to act on them.

    • You don't have to act on those thoughts to be considered bisexual. It is about sexual attraction. The real question is : do you have sexual attraction to women?

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  • Only you can know that

  • A virgin bisexual? a man's dream come true, your first time could be a FFM threesome. :)

  • What does a massive erect penis make you feel ?
    I don't think you're bi. You seem comfortable with what is on and off the table.
    I am a guy and have found. myself aroused from an Adonis of a man , and how women respond in porn. Shit I practice my orgasm moan , it's hot,

    But I know I'm not gay or bi cause , I don't watch guy born or have any desire to imagine.
    I strictly masterbate to women.
    There has never been a male peer I have ever thought about or wanted to experience anything in a sexual or romantic realm.

    If anything I'm just comfortable with my sensuality and able to distinguish my orientation. There is no confusion.

  • probably bi, unless you don't feel that to a specific person. do you want to kiss a certain same gender on lips?

  • Quickest way to find out: have a girl you like a lot stand in front of you and get naked. If you jump on her and start munching her minge, you're at least bi. Get a guy you like a lot and have him drop trou in front of you. If you jump on him and blow him or fuck him, too, you're definitely bi! If you ONLY want to get it on with him and have no interest in her, you're straight. If you only want her and not him, you're lez.

  • I would say slightly BI curious, have to have sex and find out

  • You will have to experience it in real life before you can say for sure.

  • probably only bi curious

  • Dive in and find out!

  • Everyone know what he or she likes lol

  • never I like boobs on girls and women.

  • Pretty much all women are bisexual.

  • You answered your own question

  • I don’t have really any sexual experience either

  • But do u feel. that if a girl touched u will u get horny?

  • Try and find out