I’m 18 and I never had sex. I get sexually frustrated and dont know what to do?

I dont want to have sex, but it feels like my body wants it/needs it. I get horny a lot and flirt with people i shouldn’t flirt with, for example older guys who has girlfriends. And when i realize i shouldn't i can't stop, because i feel like my body needs it (sex) even if i dont really care about having that.

What should i do?
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Superb Opinion

  • The one good thing that you have going for you is the internet there are places you can go to roleplay and experienced something that you're looking for don't be in such a big hurry that's when mistakes will be made when you want to understand something or experience something role play it out you have that option to do it on the Internet or real life no I'm going to tell you something that is going to make you say bulshit but it's 100% the truth you can have roleplay you can have phone sex and you can have a better orgasm then you can in real life it's because it's done with energy now we're into a whole nother subject but there are ways for you to satisfy yourself and have it mean something for you for you to experience something very very beautiful but it has to be at the right person and there has to be a connection just like in real life

Most Helpful Guy

  • you are very aware of yourself like you can see yourself from outside. makes me doubt this is a real question or trolling.

    but anyways, what you should do is work on your self esteem and worth, and build a relationship.

    once the hormones get started, they say what they want...

Most Helpful Girl

  • Start to get laid asap. don’t waste your youth by waiting. Find someone who is nice and handsome and fuck him.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • How old are you? Really?

  • You are a normal teenager. Your body is physically ready for sex but emotionally you may not be ready yet. Wait for the right guy at the right time. Hopefully masturbation helps?

  • Masturbate!
    That's why God made your arms long enough unlike a tyrannosaurus rex.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GG7GTGKZVBk
    • No ew

    • Honey... EVERYONE does it! The Pope does it! Nuns do it! Your parents did it... and may still do it! My DOGS do it! EVEN DOLPHINS AND ELEPHANTS DO IT! You know who ISN'T doing it? You and tyrranosaurs and their NOT doing it because their arms are too short. What's your excuse?

  • Have you tried cocaine? I hear that really helps

  • It's up to you if you enjoybharmless flirting go for it.

    • Or you could try sexting with a guy you feel comfortable with.

  • Find other ways to take care of your urges other than sex. If you feel like you need human contact but don't want to have sex do other sexual acts with that person other than intercourse.

  • Ask a guy to finger you.

  • Get off of social media and Netflix, which are encouraging you.

  • As a species we have a built in programming to reproduce. That translates to having sex for most people.

    You don't say if you're in a relationship. I'm guessing probably not.

    There's nothing wrong with you. At 18 it's normal to have a strong drive. Just don't let society dictate if it's "time". I have far more respect for a woman or a man who waits for marriage than someone who has a high "body count

  • Masturbate, and I recommend you do it before you do things you'll regret after you masturbate lol

  • Masturbation?

  • Are you kidding? The government ha to provide birth control for free. Even though the taxpayers are on the hook for it I still go along with it because it means fewer freeloaders on the welfare rolls.

  • You're in a situation just like Iam experiencing. Sometimes prayers and meditation helps, I don't know maybe just focus on our goals in life!!

  • Invest in some nice vibrators or toys I guess? Nice massage oils and self exploration too!

  • Masturbate

    • Why not try mutual masturbation with toy's OMG such a turn on my girl and I do it all the time and I just become rock hard and dripping wet as she cums for me again and again she just drives me crazy wanting her

    • @IsoUser does she squirt when she cums?

    • After she cums twice inside my hot wet mouth mouth she makes me cum twice if not inside her then on her inner labia omg she makes me cum twice inside her throat or womb every time or just on her inner lips

  • Find a boyfriend with a very high drive and help each other out.

  • Hold your horses you’ll meet a guy that’s right for you in due time
    And if you’re talking about ruining someone else’s good thing just don’t.

  • You need to get laid.

  • Maybe start masturbating or maybe talk to your bff or a girl that kinda knows about sex. Also maybe it's time to experiment with some friends to know what you like to find out how to control those sexual cravings.

  • you'll be ok girl

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