I’m freaky asf and my man’s boring in bed how can I make him freaky?👅🥵?

[Anonymous]

I am a freak but he is an ordinary guy🏃‍♀️ i am shy too but i wanna confront him

[Almost10inch4funlol]

Sadly You can’t he can only become more freaky if he enjoys it but sadly everyone don’t, some people have deep rooted reservations to exploration of their sexual desires or he may be completely mentally healthy and just don’t enjoy adventurous sexual experiences. Same as some enjoy going out and having adventures and some rather stay home and most are in the middle. You can’t force anyone to enjoy more adventurous sex but you could always express your own desires to him and sometimes when you get introduced by a trusting loving person to something you never thought you wanted you can be surprised by your enjoyment of the experience that goes for sexual and nonsexual ventures. So try to express your desires in a non confrontational way while assuring his ability to please you ( even if it’s not true 🤷🏾‍♂️😂). And just be the dominant one for a while until he can meet you at the Peak of your freakiness. And if he’s not willing to meet you at least half way, you might have to move on because the compatibility is just not there.

[ChrisMaster69]

Try getting him interested in erotica, as in stories that show the kinks you like.

try videos, the types you like, do mutual masturbation to them and highlight the bits that make you hotter.

sit down and discuss likes and dislikes

he may actually be submissive and want you in control.

he could be worried he kinks to far.

there are some good places on line for expanding your fetishes and trying new kinks safely.

[ikatys]

Girl my boyfriend was the same when we started dating but as time went on you find out how much of a freak you really are 🤪 you both have to be comfortable and obviously you don’t want to pressure him into doing things to you that he doesn’t want to. However you’d be surprised what you’re willing to do with the right person! Ask him more about sexual stuff? Like what he enjoys etc , see if he wants to try new things in bed or even outside the bedroom to spice it up more.

Good luck !!

[KirstyW]

Communication, and there are loads of sites online about how to approach this kind of thing.

[NamerOfStars]

Well, I don't know if "confront" is the best course of action here; "discuss" is probably better. And start small; he way not be willing to leap in with both feet, but putting a toe in (metaphorically, or possibly literally, depending on just how freaky you actually are) is much less likely to spook him. If he enjoys it, he'll probably want to build up, and if he doesn't strongly object, he'll probably be willing to anyway.

[harvest]

What do you consider "freaky"? What are you trying to convince him to? Because that depends. Some things are easy to talk your man into (outfits, roleplay etc.) and some are super hard bordering on impossible (strapping for example...).
So what exactly do you have in mind?

[Red_Arrow]

Bring a freaky guy home and force your man to watch you fuck that guy!

[AndyOh]

You will need to do something. If you get married you are going to be bored real quick.
I am freaky asf too so I need to find women that are like you, and very open minded.
I met a girl last year and we discovered that I was much more open minded and kinky than she was comfortable with, so we stopped seeing each other.
And remember, not every has the same kink as you do.

[JPrez]

Get him a book entitled "How to be a freak in bed". Leave it on his pillow.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

You need to lay it on him.. start with one thing at a time, and take your time with him. Start with the least shocking thing.

He may be into it and just shy/nervous.. like a virgin who wants to have sex, but afraid of a billion boogeymen. You really won't know until you ask him to experiment.

[bowenw]

Tell him what you like and ask him what he likes. Watch some porn together that includes things you like and tell him you'd like to try them with him. If he's a good guy he will likely want to make you happy.

[ryckrohan]

Have you spoken to him about it or done something along the lines of what you desire?

[magiusX26]

you can't make a partner be freaky if there is not already some freakiness to them. even with that, you still can't force another. best you can do is try to guide them to where you are both closer to being in sync and compatible.

[Andres77]

Alcohol... and porn

[K-I-S-S]

Some people are just vanilla.

Talk to him and tell him what you need, see what he says.

[Kopodoulouski633]

Talk to him

[AmeerX]

Try threesome

[bobbidigi1]

Fuck someone else or prepare for a long boring relationship

[Noodle_fan]

you need to tell us more details about your guy so we can give more accurate answer

what is his job? how many hours he works everyday? how old is he?

[Meldrum]

Get freaky with him.

[bamesjond0069]

He isn't an ordinary guy, he's lame in bed. A decent man is not lame in bed. Fail.

[devil_8888]

You can’t. Either you become ordinary or find a freaky guy.

[Steve1071]

You need to talk to him! Don’t let you sexual desires get put on the back burner.

[bklynbadboy1]

just talk to him