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Sexual Health I'm not sexually attracted to my Fiance?
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is something wrong with me? , I'm not sexually attracted to my Fiance, he's a nice guy, he gifts me a lot of things but I never bothered to open them up in excitement, I take them, thank him and I open it the next day or I just forget about it. I'm not trying to be rude. This guy is madly in love with me, he's 29 and he's a civil engineer. I'm just a student, I'm not really good at studies, I'm ok I guess. I'm 19. He finds that spark in me and I find no spark in him. sometimes I feel guilty, I told him it's not going to work out and he cried, that scared me and my parents wants me to marry him. am I doing something wrong? it feels like I'm missing something in life, I've never been in love, I actually want to fall in love with someone and marry him, I'm not a gold digger. I'm scared, I find him normal and nothing special. Most of the time I don't even care how he is or what he's doing but he texts me 24/7. He freaks out and calls everyone if I don't answer him. he always calls me when I'm in the class, I don't receive calls while I'm studying, I texted him saying * I'm in the class, I'll call later * and he told me, he doesn't care if I study or not, it's ok if I don't study and he got mad at me, he also said that he doesn't care about my studies and to stop studying further. he's too over protective, I find that annoying.
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What Girls & Guys Said
16 14Dump his ass and move on
he isn't ready to leave, he's not accepting that. he wants me to be with him. I told him it's not going to work out. I find him scary at times :/
Do you have bleach amonia 2 pop bottle super glue the spare keys to his car normally acting solinod valve and some wire
you're funny haha, I'm sorry.. I'm trying to be serious. .. thanks 😊
I wasn't joking
but that was funny for some reason 😁
Yes making a key activated chemical wepeon to kill someone is clearly a joke
who are you anyways? haha, I'd like to follow you.
Codyccc
ah? ...
Too Possessive?
exactly, that's the problem. he's nice but he's too annoying.
Tell him stop being so possessive and maybe he could improve that behaviour of his. And also i think you shouldn't marry someone who you don't like, you'll regret that decision...
Maybe do something wild with him and that make give that spark that sill make you sexually attracted to him
he harassed me. and forced me to do weird things. he even forced me to kiss him. I remember crying after coming home. I know, I told my parents but they said it's totally alright and he's going to marry me anyways.
it was disgusting.
That's strange :o
PLEASE cut this poor guy loose. You'll both be better off.
that's what I'm thinking about too. I told him but he's not ready to let go :/
You're just not into him. Nobody likes everyone and nobody gets feelings for everyone. You shouldn't marry him.
I know that clearly but I'm just confused. he cries and my parents wants me to marry him.
It's not your parents who will have to be married to him for the rest of you life is it? It's you. So do what you want. And I understand that he's sad but it's not going to get any better by marrying someone you don't love. You shouldn't have started anything with him in the first place because I take it you have never been interested in him. It's pretty cruel to be with someone, even get engaged, when you don't even want to be with them at all.