I once gave my boss a blowjob. Is it normal that my boyfriend is so jealous?

I work as a receptionist, but studied massage therapy. I used to do it at home every weekend to make some extra cash. Right before I was with my boyfriend, my boss asked me for a massage. He is quite the womanizer so I expected some advances I guess. I noticed at a certain point he had a huge boner and didn't really hide it. Then from one thing came the other. He asked for a blowjob and I gave him one. It was really stupid of me, but it happened and I can't take it back. Luckily it didn't get too weird at work after that.

Now we did a bbq with some of my best friends and we got pretty drunk. My friends brought up the fact that I have jerked off a few friends during a massage. I saw my boyfriend just laughed along but it annoyed him. Then my best friend hinted that my boss (who my boyfriend hates) got a little more and I had to tell the story. My boyfriend was clearly annoyed. They asked him if he was angry but he said it was ok. But now I notice he is jealous and asks a lot about my boss (if I saw him, talked to him, who his wife is, etc.). I also found out that he is constantly googling him and checks all his social media.

Is it normal that he is this jealous? We never talked about details, but he knew I was far from a prude and open to casual sex when I was single. What is it that makes him jealous?
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  • It is normal for any boyfriend to get annoyed

  • It was work you have to do it

  • I assume your boyfriend had to hit you up first

  • between the boss and your friends, I would drop you cold. Sounds like you'll do it with anyone.

  • Did your boss give you a promotion for being his full time slut?

    • how is one blowjob years ago full time?

  • It's crazy of him to be jealous, he should encourage you and even join you

  • i don't know it was just 1 blow job right? you never actually slept with him or anything. its one of those things which happened and maybe a little weird but perhaps not entirely unheard of

    • Just one bj and I had my boobs out which he played with a little. No real sex. I've heard similar stories from so many women, so I know it's not that uncommon.

  • Your boyfriend sounds crazy

    • Giving a blow job isn't cheating?

    • This was before they got together

    • Still makes sense for him to be jealous. A move like that does not just come by just because of coincidence...

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