Yes, Sounds like he's inexperienced and is getting nervous. You have to be more vocal... in that you what him to be more aggressive and what you like. He might be holding back, because he doesn't want to pressure you.
Main thin is you Have to talk to him about it... see where you stand and what he's thinking about. Tell him that he's not hurting you/won't break you if he is more aggressive and it actually feels so much better. Him knowing that might get him past this speed bump in your relationship.0 0 0 0Maybe some of these My Takes I've written will be helpful. Take a look and let me know.
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Well have a one in one cinversation with him. Tell him the problems your fears and i guys talk it out... or Try getting on top and having ur way instead
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0 3Talk about it outside the bedroom. Typical that a woman wants to be dominated but the men just don't get it - they're afraid of offending or hurting. Tell him you want him to fuck your brains out. Maybe he'll get the hint.
The problem I see is that if it's this frustrating now how will it be down the road? Sex tends to be raw and visceral in the beginning, tapering off over the long haul. If it's this dull now, what does your future hold?0 0 0 0Ride him hard so he knows what you mean and realizes he doesn't have to be THAT gentle. Also if the condom is too tight he will go soft real fast, maybe he is avg length but a little thicker.
0 0 0 0Just be honest with him. How he adapts will really tell. As far as him being experienced or not is irrelevant as each person is different and is pleased by different things. You could be a good lay to one person and a bad lay to another. No such thing as one size fits all in sex. What does matter is if your partner is patient and willing to learn.
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