I think my dorm mate heard me masturbating?

Hey, i gave 3 dorm mates and 2 of them were asleep and the other was out somewhere it is 1:49 now but this happened like 10 mins ago and omgg i didn’t think she was gonna be sleeping here today and she got in i didn’t hear her at first and then i did 😭 y'all i’m so embarrassed she might’ve heard me cuz i was breathing kind of heavy. Do i say something i don’t even want to see her tmr 😃
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Honestly if it’s the same sex, there’s nothing much to be embarrassed about. I’m 99% sure she does it too; I mean, who doesn’t?
    Anyway, don’t volunteer information of your own volition of no one asks/talks about it.
    Sometimes our guilty conscience makes us confess to things no one even knew about. Of course masturbation is nothing to feel guilty about but just leave things as it is. Heavy breathing could be due to a number of things - stretching, lifting weights, jogging on the spot etc. if you were moaning very loudly then yeah, she probably knew. But I don’t think that’s the case if you were only breathing heavy.

    • True ig i did’t say anything but just me knowing she might’ve heard makes me feel awkward

  • Don't say anything. Act as if it didn't happen. BUT... first, chances are that your dorm mate found it as awkward as you. Second, and WAY more important, they probably masturbate too. Most people do. It's okay.

    Just let it go.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Tbh, I wouldn't even mention it, if she does, then just laugh it off by saying something like "yeah, I was so fucking horny - hope I didn't make you feel uncomfortable, didn't know your were gonna be in" and just shrug it off 😊
    Nothing wrong with what your were doing. So you have nothing to be embarrassed about!! 💯

    • great advice :)

  • There is nothing to be said. Don’t mention it. You were just enjoying normal solo fun just the same as she does I’m sure.

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  • Good for them... it happens and it is normal!

  • Just pretend like it never happened, horndog.

  • Everyone has heard their roomate getting off. Don’t worry about it.

  • I probably wasn't a big deal to her if she heard you (and she might not have). I wouldn't worry about saying anything.

    • agreed :) curious... has you ever had a similar situation?

    • @TCredo Not that I know of... :)

    • ha... thanks for replying... it's fun to think about ;)

  • Just don’t say anything

  • Don’t bring it up. If she mentions it then you can fallow but don’t bring it up.

  • Let it go. It was harmless.

  • Dont say until she says... cuz then even if she didn't think it was your heavy breathing cuz of pleasure then she'd know for sure once u say something... just stay quite until she says or asks you

    • dang u saw my answer today hahah

    • Ya lol i haven’t been on here for months

    • dm me hahha im curious to know pls... would like to chat

  • i wouldn't unless she mentions it... completely normal with roommates so i doubt will be the last time :) i think it's pretty erotic so thanks for asking :)

  • there's nothing to be said. She knows it and its pretty much normal

    • Maybe for guys but not for girls its not something you want someone to know you do yk its rlly embarrassed

    • Don't worry. Its not embarrassing. Everybody masturbate

  • I wouldn’t directly mention that. Unless she brings it up

  • They may also feel embarrassed. Best to not say anything. Assume you finished at least?

  • Did you at least finish what you were doing before you think him or her herd you?

  • Relax and stop stressing out. Just be more careful from now on.

  • Ask her to help next time. LOL

  • Most people usually don't care.

  • Don't say anything. Go to sleep. And act like nothing happened

    • That’s exactly what i did but dang i’m making it so awkward around her cuz ik she might know and its just so embarrassing and awkward lol but im gonna stop overthinking it

    • Yeah, you are overthinking. Were you really loud?

    • Not rlly but she could prolly could have heard

  • So what? I bet she masturbates too.

    • Its makes me feel awkward lol cuz its very taboo for girls to do that

    • Why is it taboo? Most girls do it. I think it's kinda hot. So yeah. Don't sweat it.

  • its ok dont worry...
    if i heard u i masturbated to ur voice 😂😅

  • no biggie... everyone does it. Most people end up getting caught at some point in their life. At least it wasn't your mom or dad lol

    • True!

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