I told my boyfriend he was a small penis during an argument. How can I reconcile?

I said it during an argument last night... over the phone. We haven't spoken since. He's currently at work & hasn't answered the phone yet. I'm supposed to see him later tonight. I feel horrible. In that moment I wanted to hurt him, because I was feeling hurt.
What can I do to mend things?
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We finally spoke. I explained I didn't mean it and all. He actually made a joke of it later on. Thanks to all who gave helpful advice, and no thanks to those who told me my relationship was over & called me names.
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  • RIP
    Your relationship
    ---- to 2017

    • Lmao >.<

  • Yep you messed up

  • Oh shit, lmao. You fucked up. Best to break up, you've plagued his mind with tons of insecure thoughts.

    Ps - You're a bitch for making such a comment, by the way.

    • Yeah you don't know anything about me to call me that name & don't act like you never said anything f'd up in your life. Like most of the other people here you come to make me feel worse so you can feel better about yourself, you're a bitch.

    • Not to my girlfriend, SPECIFICALLY to hurt her. If NOT making my gfs insecure makes me a bitch then so be it, lol. I don't see you guys lasting long if this is the kinda shit you pull.

    • Ok thank. Looks like we're good though. Well wishes to you and yours.

  • I truly believe that if you make him feel like you still like/want his dick ( ex: "you have a small penis but I love it and it's mine and I want it") and then you precede to grab it & blow him (maybe sex even) then you stand a slight chance of reconciliation...

  • That was essentially the same as a guy calling a girl fat. He will probably be thinking of that comment for a very long time.

  • Did you apologize to him? That was a really hurtful thing of you to say to him. I am not sure if I would forgive you if I were him

  • That will remain with him and haunt him for the rest of his life. Stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid... repeat a million times. Needless to say, don't do that with your next boyfriend.

  • How would you feel about taking a hot, hard, long bare bottom spanking and butt fucking for it if he'd forgive you and let it go? I have found that corporal discipline works well for situations like this. You pay for what you did, he takes it out on you, and it's over.

  • It's not gonna be easy unless the guy really doesn't care what you think (doubtful, guys actually care a lot what women, especially a woman they're close to, think of them. it damages our ego) now that you said it, It's impossible to retract what you said, even if you say sorry, that's not gonna change the fact that you even though about it, he's gonna be insecure forever now.

  • That's like he saying you're fat and have no boobs at all.

  • You can't. You basically insulted his manhood and ruined his confidence. Your relationship might be over.

  • Ohhhhhhh boy you messed up big time. You can't come back from that.

  • Is it remotely true?

    • Well, maybe a little below average? I'm not sure. I enjoy sex with him though.

    • That's gonna be really tough to come back from.

  • How long is his penis?

    • It's maybe slightly below average.

    • about 12 cm?

    • I don't know the exact length..

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  • Have sex and worship his penis