I told my boyfriend I my boyfriend I masturbated in the bathroom because he doesn’t do his job right was I to blunt?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

This is a sign that not only will this relationship fail, but that you are led by your ego and disconnected with he spirit that dwells within. You are supposed to be bringing each-other toward ascension in every way. Your comment came from the ego, not from the soul.

[Jamesshinobi]

i know how you feel. my wife sucks in bed. she gets off and then just stops. i stopped having sex with her because im not a dildoe. she came on to me the other day amd i dod exactly what you did. if that dont make them act right then they can go fuck themselves. we aren't sex toys are we?

[NamerOfStars]

Probably. You not being satisfied is a problem, but is that how YOU'D want to be told if it was the other way around?

[DannyUk2017]

wasn't blunt... actually quite hot... if i was him i wouldve ask to see you, that would "spice up the things a bit". This if he knows to appreciate and see's the sexyness in it... 😉

[Asker]

I doubt he thought it was hot when I told him through text and cuss him out 😂

[DannyUk2017]

Oops... that makes sense...🤦‍♂️🤣🤣🤣 If a woman cusses after the sex, the... he is doomed"... lmaoo

[DannyUk2017]

*then, sorry try to type fast 😁

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, you were.

[RobT312]

That’s just cruel

[summiter]

It is best to be honest

[20yearsolder]

Not at all, I hate when women fake an orgasm. When they do that, their guy thinks he's doing his job.

[Bricealan]

No, not too blunt. He should know by now.

[ProVox]

Depends, have you discussed it before or was this his first "hint?" 🤔😆

[Asker]

It wasn’t the first hint but first time telling him I masturbated in the bathroom when he was in my room lol

[Jenny-Marie]

Lol? You really think it's funny? If he's got any sense he'll move on to someone with a better personality.

[ProVox]

Yea, maybe you should discuss his inadequacies and how he's neglecting your needs and disappointing you. That's only fair. Perhaps he's oblivious?

[RealMarek]

If you are dissatisfied with the frequency or quality of sex, why not simply say so without bringing the masturbation up?

[FilmGuy93]

Of course you were too blunt. Why the hell would you think it was okay to say something like that.

[Havthrills]

Nope. Telling him was a great idea. It is hot too. He should do his job right and make sure his woman can barely move from ecstasy.

[Asker]

I want him to be mad not think is hot lol

[Havthrills]

It should make him think that he's doing it wrong. If you want him mad, tell him you have to use a dildo twice his size to feel pleasure. That'll get him mad.

[Wise4myage]

That's just stupid.

[maximumpower]

What?

[Jenny-Marie]

Not just blunt but also nasty. If you are not satisfied, there are many nicer ways to improve your sex life. You could show him how to improve your experience or you could tell him what you like. Shitty comments will achieve nothing positive and just destroy the relationship. You need to grow up and learn how to treat people.

[nawtee_me]

instead you should show him how to do his job better. Show him what you like and where to touch you or how to eat you... If he is going by what his old girlfriend likes and your likes are different then he needs to know your likes...

[Paul09]

Depends on the situation. If he only thinks about him self in sex, then you should be blunt. He doesn't take the time to learn what you like. Then you are right. Communication Is key. I dont get this one sided thing. I personally would want to try everything to pleasure the woman. I wouldn't worry about myself. But I'd hope she would return the favour.

[Zolly99999]

Nope not at all..

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

nope

[MrTaboo]

Yes very, it's your fault he doesn't know what YOU like. Teach him! Show him, tell him. He will learn and will do just that every time.

[goodgirlsteven]

Dammmnnn! A little bit! teach him what you want during sex, slow him down, tell him everything you want he will try!