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Sexual Health I Told My Boyfriend That His Penis Was Quite Small Compared To Porn; Now He Is Being Defensive is this usual?
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Are guys really that sensitive about their penis size? So I told my boyfriend yesterday that based on what I have seen in porns and online that his penis was pretty small and he became extremely defensive and basically began giving me a bit of attitude. So this evening we sit down to eat dinner and he continues his defensive behavior; I mean I was just being honest with him! therefore I didn’t think he would be that sensitive and I believe based on my perspective the comment was warranted. We have been together for 4 years he is 27 I’m 23 anyhow is this usual?
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What Girls & Guys Said
5 31It's that same as him saying you aren't as attractive as the women in porn
you pretty much said he wasn't good enough
ya you insulted him why would he not be defensive. unless he asked about his dock size your comment was unwarented. you should appologize. what if he said your titts are small how would you feel?
if he told told you your vagina was loose and deep and he can hear echoes when he's done there how would you feel? porn guys may be large and or long most NOT naturally so and you can usually tell where the movies are spliced together to make it seem as if they can do for hours on end do not believe the hype
What you see in porn is not real, the size of penises in porn is exaggerated it was unkind of you to compare him to porn, what if he said your boobs just don't measure up to the boobs in porn.
Penises in porn are unrealistically huge and every guy already knows they don't have a porn dick. It's an unspoken truth and should have been left unspoken haha I'd say his defensiveness is justified because imagine if he made a comment comparing you to porn.
Must be a troll, no one is that dense... right? please tell me this is a troll...
I think you've probably learned a valuable lesson. Don't tell a man they're dick is too small. You can think it, but keep it to yourself.
How would you feel if he told you that there are many more intelligent girls around?
It is something that can't be changed so why say something that you know will hurt an SO and they can't change it?
Such a bad girlfriend for doing that.
Yes its usual, a lot of guys are really defensive about their penis size.
Just try to convince him that size doesn't matter to you and you care about him
He is feeling very self conscious and much self doubt
Welcome to the life of every guy when she asks "Does this dress make me look fat or Do you think I'm fat" and he doesn't give the answer she wants to hear :D