I’ve always had the idea that blowjobs were more of an inconvenience for girls, am I just uneducated about that?

I think there is only 1 girl I dated that I didn’t get a blowjob from, but what shocked me is that the girls who did, always would ask me even sometimes when that wasn’t even on my mind, if they could give me a blowjob, of course I’m gonna let them do it, but every time that happened I always had the thought in the back of my mind, why she would want to do that on her own out of the blue sometimes, or just without being asked in general. (Smaller boobs are the most beautiful to me) Boobs are beautiful, dicks are not in the slightest. 2 of the girls I dated especially were always touchy-feely around near my junk in my pants whenever they would ask to give me a blowjob, and one of them seemed to bite her lips a lot prior to asking me. I’m sure there’s science behind this but why does a girl wanna make a meal of my penis? It’s not big at all, and I can’t imagine it being a turn on. From my experience and perspective it’s just her way of making me feel good and making herself wet without having to finger herself. I've gotta be uneducated, can someone help me make sense of this?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • 1. I sure don't find penises ugly. At least not Hubby's.

    2. By the way girls are individuals, some like giving BJ's some don't. To some girls the size of your penis matters, others it makes no difference, some prefer larger penises, other girls prefer smaller penises, others average is best. Just like guys with boobs.

    3. It can be a turn on, if you are into a guy, to strip him naked, get him hard and make him cum. Probably no different than a guy liking to play with woman's boobs. So yeah, sometimes we want to give you a BJ to make you feel good, other times we want to do it more for ourselves.

    • That makes a lot more sense now, as a guy I would’ve never thought of it like that

  • I disagree about a woman not getting anything out of a blow job. I will share that if I give my husband a blow job it actually turns me on. It helps me to get in the mood and lubricated.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Cheese testing! Those rumors of conversations that girls talk bout boys are true. An don't ask they will deny it all! All of it, your lucky if they admit to cheese testing you. Ask them in person, no hinting of wanting to ask, or saying I need to tell you something. Just show up at the door, bluntly say, " Did you cheese test me, sucking my dick the other night? " to forms you will receive : one, a blank stare with a quick no & or two, a slight hair swirl with an elevated "What?"
    Or a possible admitted. Good luck friend.

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  • I love giving them, just like pleasing my man

    • I kinda figured that would probably be the most common reason for girls that do, I just feel in most cases there gotta be several reasons for it

    • There are a few more reasons

    • Mind if I ask what they are?

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  • Sure, I hate them. I’d never give one tbh.

    • That’s honestly how I thought every girl was for the longest time, I’m shocked they’re not all like you in that regard, I just don’t get it

    • Honestly same here. The thought of putting someone’s genitals in my mouth makes me feel physically ill.

    • Have you ever let a guy play suck or lick your boobs then? You’ve never had or let a guy lick your vagina?

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  • Not for everybody