Embarrassment is considered one of the self-conscious emotions, quite at ease in the company of guilt, shame, and pride. Given that embarrassment happens in relation to other people, it is a public emotion that makes you feel exposed, awkward, and filled with regret for whatever your wrongdoing happens to be. I can understand your concern. For some reason, there's a stigma surrounding masturbation. Regardless of what might be the cause, remember that you are not alone. While most people don’t discuss these topics openly, a lot of people experience these feelings.
*"I assumed it was safe to walk inside but it wasn’t."*
I can understand your concern. It's little bit embarrassing moment. Knock before entering from next time. Move on. It's normal. Few guys masturbate thinking about their sister. I had seen few questions on GirlsAskGuys. That's Great that your friend recommended you this app. The main purpose of this community is to help.
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He's probably young and exploring the whole masturbation thing and he may see you as pretty (not attracted to you) but appreciates your appearance. You're also closer to his age and he probably would prefer a woman his age rather than a woman your mother's age. I guess in a sense, it's a way to get off. Just let him know he shouldn't be taking your underwear. If he likes them because they are just panties, offer to buy him some to use for this purpose. If he likes them because they're yours, then you have a problem.
same thing happened with me, we had a fight over it but later on i realized that its actually common thing. and believe me i gave him permission to use my panties.
for you i will suggest that you should talk to him n see what comes up
sister rocks!
you gave him permission to use your panties. Good lord. Who the fuck raised you? Just because degeneracy is getting popular doesn't mean we all need to jump off this cliff
It's completely normal I've caught my brother doing the same thing. But you might want to let him keep the underwear...
I just washed them
Or you can do that.
Oh wow, I didn’t realize it was a common thing.
That's gross. Your bro and obvi pervo. And needs to get straightened out real quick.
Tell your parents.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Yes, pretty normal. He's probably fascinated about girls at the moment, and your underwear is probably the closet to a girl he's got...
It might be worth having a talk about respect and boundaries - eg, "I'm not angry with you, but I think we should have a talk about respect and boundaries..."
*closest. (not closet!)
So here's the thing, this situation is delicate so how you should go about it is approach him directly and ask him straight forward what his deal is and explain how you felt about it and the wrongs of that because if you don't bury that crap with him he's going to think that behavior is okay, you are his older sibling you can be an asshole about it and if need be you bring it up to your family, but depending on his age he could be curious about girls in the wrong sense and you need to correct him on his behavior otherwise he could grow older into something that could be volatile to your relationship in the family so you need to talk with him out in the open like the living room or the backyard and just be real with how you felt and see where it goes from there all you have to do is make your statement and then listen and then react to his answers you'll know what to say as you converse
Not normal.
Yeah, that's pretty fucking creepy.
Lol @ all these catfish claiming this is normal and / or common.
Nobody who respects family boundaries properly would behave like this.
It definitely is weird to see your younger brother fantasizing to your underwear. However, I think it would be best to be as supportive as possible if he's only like 11-13.
It probly means he was fantasizing about you.
Think about it. When your little brother becomes curious of a female's underwear, the safest starting point would be yours. Understand that he meant nothing bad out of this and let it be. Only stop him if he wants to sex with you forcibly.
Plant fake sister panties with dog fur rubbed all over it
Hopefully he gets a rash next time he decides to jerk off all over your panties 😂
Yes and no.
Not weird for a guy to be seriously turned on by lingerie. It's a fetish object, so nothing to fret about.
Slightly weird if he's fantasizing about his sister wearing them.
You should ask him what he was doing with your underwear
Basically, it is understandable behaviour. But he crossed a line, as you are his sister. Without exposing him, I would let him sweat for 2 or 3 weeks. As a lesson.
its just a horny guy that got courious set him straight though dont let him do it again
You should tell him not to use your underwear.
Isn't weird for him to rub one out...
... it is really fuckin weird to do it with your panties.
He was probably smelling them, there are some men who get very aroused from the smell of used womens underwear.
If he is using yours to do this, well shit could get really weird.
You need to tell him that using anything of yours to get off is not ok.
you will need to tell me his age
by the way, males especially in puberty can't control their bodies
its not him who masturbated its his brain releasing hormones
and it happens to me and i hate it
you have to forgive him or maybe speak to him and tell him its ok its naturall etc
and act like you didn't see the panties
why you ask?
so he doesn't get emberassed his whole life whenever he remembers it, just try it
bullshit, horseshit, horny as shit maybe but you can still control yourself
at some degree you can control yourself, fins me one way to stop an erection that uses no ropes or sharp objects il wait
did u walk in on him in the shower? or the shower was on but he was somewhere else?
Okay. Hold up. Don't go incest on me. That is not normal. At all.
Age pls?
Moderate him
I'm guessing he's like 11-13? Plus, he's probably going through puberty and try talking to him about it, even if it's awkward af.
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